Did I Have A Miscarriage (tmi)

ROSAURA · 09-14-2007, 10:38 PM

I Had A Bad Break Up In July And I Moved Out Of My X Boyfriends House.. On The Last Day Of Packing And Moving Boxes I Had To Do It By Myself.. It Is A 2 Story House.
I Felt Like I Was Gonna Get My Period.
So Me Crying And With So Much Stress In My Life I Drove To My Mothers House Which Is 3hours Away.
When I Got Out Of The Car.. A Trail Of Blood Was Following Me Every Step I Took.. And I Did Have A Maxi Pad.. But This Was Not Normal.. My Mother Said She Was Gonna Take Me To The Hospital.. But I Ignored Her Cuz I Was So Weak And Tired Of All That Has Happened.. When I Finally Got Up.. Blood Streamed Out Of Me.. It Almost Seems Like It Was Jumping Out Of Me..
The Pain Was Intense.. But Short Lived.. And My Blood Clots.. Where As Big As A Whole Hand.. It Was Somthing I Never Seen Before
Sorry Tmi

I Told This Story To My Non Pcos Friends. Which By The Way I Dont Have Any Pcos Friends.. They All Tell Me It Sounds Like I Had A Miscarriage.
But The Day Before This Happened I Had The Sensation Like My Period Was Coming..

But My Friend Told Me That She Thought Her Period Was Coming And She Was Actually Pregnant..
I Dont Know What To Think.
Because Sometimes I Feel Something Odd In My Left Side..

Any Cysters Have Any Advise .. When I Moved Out Of My X's House I Also Left My Job.. Which Means I Have No Insurance.

Any Advise .. I Will Appreciate It..

ScreamingBeauty · 09-15-2007, 12:01 AM

well, its too late for this but you could have taken an at home pregnancy test even a few days after and if you had been you would have gotten a positive because those hormones stay with you for a few days. It sounds similar to miscarriage stories that i have heard.

it could have also just been an intense and short lived period which is less likely. are you on any kind of birth control? did you get your period the month before this happened? sometimes those can play a factor in intensity of your period.

as far as insurance goes it's really easy to get free care if you are unemployed. Even though its been months it would be a good idea to look into it. are u getting unemployment? if you have proof of that or of your lack of income you can get free care. Just call your local hospitals and ask about their policies on that. good luck hun

serenity1981 · 09-15-2007, 12:11 AM

It sounds like you had a horrible time, i hope your feeling better now.
But if i was you i would try to get and see a doctor just to check everythings ok now.
Blessed Be

tigir · 09-15-2007, 01:33 AM

I would DEFINATELY get that checked out - especially if you still have sensations on one side, when you mentioned that I thought of an ectopic pg. I have never had a miscarriage or ectopic pg, but what you described would have sent me to the ER wether or not I had ins. I hope things are better now.

alexander4372 · 09-15-2007, 01:34 AM

How scary for you. I have had 2 miscarriages and with both I had horrible cramps, like period cramps but worse and I did have heavier bleeding then normal but not as bad as you have discribed mine was like a very heavy period and some clots but none as big as my hand. Hun, if you can I would get to a doctor and get it check out. Has the bleeding stopped? Oh and I Just wanted you to know if it was a miscarriage you didn't cause it by being stressed out or lifting heavy boxes. Sometimes they just happen. Sending you a big (((((HUG))))) and lots of prayers.

Dolphin39 · 09-15-2007, 02:08 PM

When i misscarried i passed whiteish tissue along with some gray colored tissue and i bleed really bad with horrible contractions.

ROSAURA · 09-17-2007, 09:21 PM

Thanx Girls For All Your Concern.. I Feel So Relieved That I Can Display My Emotions Here.
Its Scary To See That Alexander4372 You Mentioned You Had A Miscarriage And You Didnt Bleed The Way I Did.. Now Im Really Scared..

I Stopped Bleeding But After Like 4 Dayz...

Tigir Mentioned An Ectopic Pregnancy..wow.. I Dont Even Know What That Is..

Dolphin Im Sorry To Hear You Had A Miscarriage.. Are You Tryin To Conceive?

Serenity Thank You For Your Words.. I Appreciate It..

To Answer Screaming Beauty.. Its Funny You Should Ask If Im Employed.. But Today Was The First Day At My New Job.. And The Bad Thing Is Its A State Job.. And I Will Always Be A Temp.. Unless I Take A State Test.. In A Few Months.. In That Case Im Unsure When I Will Have Insurance Coverage.

I Hope.. I Did Not Have A Miscarriage.. Because 2 Dayz Before This Happened. I Had A Dream That I Had A Baby Boy And He Was Too Little To Survive.. Because He Was So Small. Then 2 Dayz After The Dream That Happened.. I Will Be Crushed.. But At The Same Time Relieved That I Will Not Be Linked With My X.
Its Bitter Sweet.. I Dont Know What To Think Anymore...

tigir · 09-21-2007, 05:29 AM

Rosaura ~

I am sorry you have had this to worry about! On the ectopic pg...That is where the baby attaches somewhere outside the uterus, usually in a fallopian tube (tubal pg), but it can attach other places too. I am not sure that would be what you had necessarily, but that is what first came to mind when I read your original post.

Something else I just thought about was maybe a burst cyst? I don't know what the bleeding would be like with that, but many women who have them experience severe pain and some type of bleeding - I don't think it would necessarily be that much though.

When you have enough $ to get into the Dr. you should pop in and see, even without ins. you can arrange to make payments with some Dr. Hope your new job is going well!

ROSAURA · 09-21-2007, 09:37 PM

Thanx Tigir.. God Bless.. Thanx For Your Advise And Words Of Encouragement..