I really like this girl and she really likes me...Only problem is that we havent talked in months!
I got freaked out and quit talking to her. I have a problem with relationships.
The thing now is that I miss her and want to reconnect. She lives in the same apt. building as me!!
Am I wrong to want to reconnect? Relationships freak me out cause I am so paranoid about my PCOS symptoms and I had a really messed up childhood which still affects me to this day!! But I am trying to work it out!
I care about her. I dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!
__________________ I am sick to death of:
PCOS Whiners Converters Fluff Bunnies and most of all.....Selfishness
Treat others as you would want to be treated!!!!
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You should so definately try to make ammends. It might also help you overcome some of your own issues by forcing you to confront them. At the very least, you could regain her as a friend. I've always tried to maintain friendship relationships with x-boyfriends after the break-up. Now that I'm married, my husband and I even spend time with some of them and their families.
I really wanna reconnect with her. I emailed her so I guess I will wait and see if she emails back! Who knows. Sometimes life really sucks and it's so hard to get back on track. All I wanna do is fix my problem that I have with relationships but I dont wanna hurt anyone.
__________________ I am sick to death of:
PCOS Whiners Converters Fluff Bunnies and most of all.....Selfishness
Treat others as you would want to be treated!!!!
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I think since you live in the same appartment you should do something a little more personal than an email. Face your fear and go knock on her door. I'm the shyest person in the world. I've had to learn to force myself to do things that scare me. An email is too impersonal and is still kind of like hiding. Most people are more responsive face to face. I think direct contact will be your best bet to mend fences.
I agree w/ LaurAnnHere about seeing her face to face... I would be scared too, but I was setting here thinking... Emails change (sometimes alot) & what if she dosen't get your email & your are waiting on a reply? If you can muster up the courage, youd know right away where "y'all" are!!
Best wishes! I hope it goes how YOU want it to!! I'll be thinking about ya!!
I talked to her on the phone and it was nice. I miss her. However, I feel like I dont have the right to talk to her cause I gave her the shaft before. Dont quite know what to do!
__________________ I am sick to death of:
PCOS Whiners Converters Fluff Bunnies and most of all.....Selfishness
Treat others as you would want to be treated!!!!
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I'm so glad you made that first step. People's emotions are curious things. A phone call is the first step to building a bridge. Face to face contact will help. If you've done something to hurt someone then you have to say your sorry. Just take it one step at a time. We've all made mistakes and I'm sure she understands that. She's obviously receptive to rekindling the relationship or at least a friendship if she spoke with you on the phone. Good luck. I think everything will work out with time and patience.
Dilemma!! 
