Well I am all moved and I feel a ton better. I have also been out of town on business a few times and I have missed everyone! I will be glad when that POS is out of my life for good and he and his little slut can live in their slop house together. OK- here is the question I want to ask- I am only posting this under the depression board because that is where the thread started- but here it is. I met someone. Is it too soon after such a miserable broken heart to feel giddy and happy about someone new??? Any advice is appreciated! He is the OPPOSITE of my ex- I think all along I have been learning what I DON'T want in a man. I am kind of scared though. Is that normal?????
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First of all CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! You did it and you are now one hell of a women and are stronger than yesterday. Truly an inspiration to everyone!
Second of all....it's never too soon for friends or more for that matter. To me the time for someone to love the truly amazing person you are is long overdue. Take it slow, deep breathe and HAVE FUN!!!
Keep us posted about the new man!!!!
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I think maybe you can be the only one to answer if it is too soon. We go to mediation in July and I am still in mourning, still in love, still not ready to even smile at another man. He, on the other hand, is paying for eHarmony and dating far and wide already.
If you are happy, I think it must be time.
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Congrats on the divorce coming through and also hun nope you go for it i met my DH2B after a really difficult relationship with us it was love at first sight and we have been together for 4 years now. It will be normal to feel afraid hun but follow your heart and most of all listen to your instinct
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Remember that some relationships don't work out and that's nobody's fault. (Hopefully this one will work out fine! But if it doesn't there is a whole sea of men out there left to explore.) It is important to learn and grow from every experience... learn more about other people and learn about yourself! Take your time and have lots of fun remembering how to enjoy yourself again.
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Mandana, I think it is too soon to start a new relatioship. But that's just what I think. I think is great that you have new found hope and feel better after all that has happened, but I think you need to let your heart heal before jumping into another relationship. My advice is to first learn to live with yourself alone. To get to know the new you. Like you said, you've learned what you don't want in a man but what you also have to learn is who you are now. You have changed, through all this, you have matured and become a better woman than what you were. Don't dump the guy but do take your time, I don't mean to say don't go out with him. You definately need to go out, you deserve it after what you've been through.
Basically, just take your time, get to know the new you and learn to love again.
hugs and kisses
Indira
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IT'S A BOY!!!!
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Yay Mandana!!! So good to hear from you again girl!!
Look personally I think so long as you're going into this whole thing with your eyes open, and keeping in mind that your spirits have been low and you're probably looking for a self esteem boost, take it slowly and go with the flow honey. If it's working for you, then go for it! Just keep your head about you chickie.
Oh, and take that D off before XH!!! Nothing "dear" about that jerk!!
I am still stinging from the cheating POS but I am being very cautious with the new one. I am living by myself in a new place for the first time and getting to know myself again as a single chick. I just don't want these 'feelings' I have to be some sort of afterthought of the ex- does that make sense??
You are right Indira- I will take my time with the new one (Eric) and see what happens but slowly and on my terms. I am soooooooo done man-pleasing it could make me vomit.
New found freedom! This time next month I will be a totally single!!!!
LOVE YOU!
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DIVORCE FINAL JULY 21st 
