My SIL is expecting. And I just got the "my water broke" going to hospital call. And now my heart is breaking. "why can't this be me" I know that I should be happy for them, and I am honestly. But it really hurts that it's them and not me. Now I get to go to the hospital and look at all the baby's a pretend to be excited, when really all I want to do is cry. Lord please give me strength. How do you ladies deal with this?
__________________ 80lbs lost before BFP!
Weight loss on hold while I make a baby real quick!
Wendy (26) DH Ryan (28)
1 furbaby Preicous
Married 8/29/05
RX 4/05
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for me staying strong i refer back to god ........i dont think i could be strong without god.keeping myself busy also gets my mind off things take it easy on urself.everything thats gonna happen has already been predicted.have faith hun!
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I'm sorry, Wendy! I know how you feel, XDH and I TTC for almost three years and then my cousin called to tell me she was pg last August, when Riley came in April, it was sooo hard to go through and be there and act happy when I wanted to be in my counsin's place.
Eventually, it will be us, and we'll be the ones happy, until then, hang on and pray, that really helped me through my struggle.
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All I can say is HUGS!!!!! It will happen for you when the time is right. Keep your head up and think postive! I know how I felt when my brother and SIL got PG. I was not very nice about it, well she knew that we had been TTC for almost 6 years and then when it happened for them, she shoved it in my face and was like look- I am PG.(Cann't stand her now) I know how you feel, please just keep your head high and it will happen for you! It did for us!!!
Big hugs!
Kristi
__________________ Kristi (29) DH Eric (33)
Married 10/22/99 8 years
TTC #1 since 10/26/99---BFP 2/22/06
DX 11/11/05
OMG have we lost our minds??? We are TTC #2!!!!
11/18/07- CD 1 Giving soy 160mg a try!!!!
Collin Jerl was born 10/25/06 8 pounds 9 oz and 20 inches!!!!!!!!
hi,
i can't say as though i know exactly how you feel but i can relate. i'm kind of in the same situation with cousins who are 10 yrs younger than me having babies, and i haven't had any yet. i've said those same things. i've only had one or two family events that i've had to excuse myself from because of jealousy or saddness... and you know what. that's ok if you need to distance yourself. but before every one i'm practically in tears thinking of every reason i can make up to not go. in the end i go because those are moments i will never get back. the only thing that keeps me supportive and going to events, is to take part in their lives. With the help of God, i have to constantly tell myself....
They aren't having babies to make me upset. they are excited and want to share these moments with me, not to make me feel bad but to share their joy. even though i feel like they should be more understanding i know that if i ever get pregnant i'll be shouting from the rooftops telling EVERYBODY. Who knows there may be some infertile woman around and i would try to be sensitive, but to tell you the truth i think i'd be too excited to contain myself. Not realizing that i'd be hurting someones feelings. i think i'd be thinking i'm so happy wouldn't everyone be happy for me. (Instead of how i feel about them sometimes)
many of these people only think about themselves because they have no idea what you are going through. be patient with them, pray a lot and remember the child that is being born will be your neice or nephew, don't waste precious time by not being with them because you are jealous or upset. you can't get that time back. whenever you need to vent about those feelings of saddness and jealousy you've got tons of gals here ready to listen.
But in the end you do need to protect your emotional health, if you truly feel that it is too much for you then keep your distance, just make sure any decision you make to stay away is one that you can live with.
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well ladies...i made it through, it was 16 hours of labor, and i did great! only cried when they were cleaning the baby and we were all watching. I made it through with God's help. I know one day it will be me. Thanks so much for the support.
__________________ 80lbs lost before BFP!
Weight loss on hold while I make a baby real quick!
Wendy (26) DH Ryan (28)
1 furbaby Preicous
Married 8/29/05
RX 4/05
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I know how you feel. It seems like I am haunted by pregnant people, and it makes me feel so bad all the time.
__________________ The Irish have always been victims of negative stereotype. I mean people think we're all drunks and brawlers; and sometimes that gets you so mad all you wanna do is get drunk and punch somebody.
Do I really have too. 
