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Old 04-23-2009, 02:24 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I have never been pregnant by anyone but my husband. This miscarriage is my 4th. Could it be that my husband and I aren't genetically compatible? Could it be that with him I will always miscarry?
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Old 04-23-2009, 02:31 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I just had my 2nd and asked my RE the same question. He said that only happens in 1-5%. I think you should have repeat loss testing. 4 miscarriages is more than enough to warrant that. They can check for genetic compatability during that time.
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Old 04-23-2009, 05:16 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I've had rpl testing after my 3rd, but they didn't even want to talk about my husband. They found that I have a clotting disorder. They prescribed .6mgs of klexane (heparin) the next time I get pregnant. The doctor I ended up getting the klexane from for this pregnancy lowered the dosage because I had lost weight. I was put on .40mg instead of .60mg. A week later I started spotting. The doctor at the hospital said that I was on too low of a dosage and needed to be on .60mg. So, I was on .40mgs for 12 days then a week of .60mgs plus 81mgs baby aspirin. But, it may have been too late. I am still passing clots and they confirm the miscarriage on Tuesday. It is still unsure as of today.
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ACA i am sorry for your loss. and it sucks that the dr lowerd your doseage. loss is so devestating.
It may be a combo of your clotting disorder and DH it is hard to tell unless he is tested. i am at the same point but without insurance i am unable to travel down that road right now.
Did they tell u what clotting disorder it is? sometimes there is a combo which warrants more meds.
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Old 04-24-2009, 12:05 PM   #5 (permalink)
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The doctors were wrong. I'm not miscarrying.
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wow that is great news. do they know what is going on?
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Old 04-24-2009, 12:13 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Thank you. They think that maybe it is because of the heparin and baby aspirin. That I have a bleed somewhere. It starts and stops and starts and stops and clots come. But they said that everything is closed and I saw the baby and the heartbeat myself. They said everything looks fine.

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OMG - that is so AWESOME! Truly a miracle.
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Thank you Harley! I promise that I will. Thank you again!
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THat is awesome news. It gives us all hope that we can get the results we all pray for to. i look forward on seeing how things progress for you
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Acajou, that is WONDERFUL news! I'm so happy for you!
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Great news to hear!
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a friend of mine has had several miscarriages and a stillborn at 6 months pregnant. they finally figured out that it was her RH FACTOR, something to do with her blood. the next time she got pregnant they put her on meds
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