I'm so sorry - it's hard isn't it? For so long, these emotional changes were happening in my body and i could never pinpoint what they were. Even now, a month after my diagnosis and I still feel like it can't be. I completely agree with you, the most difficult part is dealing with the symptoms of the PCOS along with my raging episodes and mood swings. Even today, I was so completely unstable - sometimes I feel like I am going absolutely nuts! Do you suffer from social phobia as well? I have a hard time going out anywhere.. for a year, I was pretty much bedridden from all my surgeries and everything and now I feel like I am being shoved back into the world and I forgot what it was like to interact with people. It is so hard

Not to mention, the hair, the weight, and the acne.. it's dreadful. My family and my boyfriend are getting the most of it too, they're the ones always around me.. and sometimes the things that they do or say trigger an episode, it's so hard.
Well, my pcos is being treated with just birth control for the time being (i don't think my doctor quite knows what to put me on - she's not too familiar with the disease). And as for my bipolar, I'm actually starting my medication on Friday. I can't wait to finally have things turn around - I am so sick of being so unstable. That is definitely a good idea - they will have the answers to your questions. I'm considering going to a PCOS clinic here as well.. let me know what your specialist tells you, i'd be interested to know what they say about bipolar and pcos.
If you ever need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to message me! The good thing is that we can both relate, we're not just dealing with pcos - we're dealing with bipolar as well and it can be hard to find people who know exactly what you're going through. We can be pcos/bipolar support cysters! LOL