bfsanner

I just need to know the feeling of broken goes away. I don't know which way to turn any more. It feels like I tell every one that I am okay and it is all good no problems, but I am not. I feel guilty that I can't have my husbands child. I want to fix my prob so bad, but it doesn't seem likely

Does it get better? I just want to stop feeling this pain.

stellarnix

It can get better. Sometimes it takes some extra help. Have you talked to your doctor about depression? They can refer you to a counselor if you aren't interested in meds.

As for not being able to have a child, you could probably get better support from the "trying to conceive" thread. Good luck, and the best to you. May you feel better soon.

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Sistie

I was diagnosed only a couple of months after I got married. I felt like I trapped my husband, I have one child and would love more. I have found that people who don't suffer say things like foster or be happy with one but it's hard.
I promise it will all get better, have you got a counsellor you can talk to? I talk to one and have found it cathartic, it's also good because you can be honest with them without worrying about offending them. Sometimes I spend a whole hour crying, sometimes I spend a whole hour growling.

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cprince

Just Wanted To Say Hello And Hugz!! It Gets Better And Then Worse. It Helps Me To Get On Here And See So Many Other Great Cysters Who Have The Same Issues Who Can Offer Advice Because They Have Been There. We Are All Here For Each Other. I Agree That Antidepressants And Therapy Are Good Things. Good Luck With Treatment And Remember To Take Things One Day At A Time. Hope You Feel Better Soon.

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First off, *hugs*. Second, my soon to be ex DH and I TTC for over 3 years, and I've always felt terrible that I could never get pg, no matter what I did or he did, all the ovulation timing and everything else. It was constantly from his family that "well, he already has two kids, so he's not the problem...." and after awhile, it got hard to take on TOP of trying to deal with him being bi-polar. Only a week ago did I discover why I never conceived in all the years we tried.

I eventually broke down and cried everyday, the worst breakdown I had was on our second anniversary, in the middle of our trip. He was driving down the road, and I just bursted out in tears and bawled like a baby. Once we got home and found out that our efforts of TTC on our romantic weekend didn't work out (even though it was perfect timing cycle wise) I went to a doctor and got myself some meds to deal with all the stresses in my life. I was given Zoloft, and it helped me out wonderfully.

Medication is not everyone's answer, and now that I'm going through a divorce, I've been able to drop them because I'm not being pressured constantly by him or his family.

Talking to a counselor is also VERY helpful. The most important thing is to keep yourself healthy and not in a gloomy mood. Once again, *hugs*

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