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Old 05-05-2008, 01:07 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I am having a threatened miscarriage, at least that's what they're calling it for now... I had a positive pregnancy test on April 26th, and had my first Ob appointment scheduled for tomorrow to check everything out.

I had some painful cramping today, so I went to the bathroom and wiped and had lots of blood. I called DH and told him to drive me to the hospital... I went to the bathroom again, a decent sized clot passed... I'm thinking, "Oh god... no."

We get to the hospital, they run a barrage of tests... and we still don't know.
I'm only about 5 weeks, they can't tell from the ultrasound... but there is something still in there (They said.)

They said my Beta was a little lower than they'd like, but since I hadn't had a Beta done before this one they couldn't tell anything from it because we don't know how far I am.

I have to see my Ob tomorrow, and schedule another Beta two days from today to see if my numbers double or go down...

I'm still having some cramps, and a little blood... but it's like EWCM infused with blood (Sorry, TMI.) My bleeding, and clots, were massive for an hour or two... (Again, sorry if TMI.)

I'm trying to hold out hope, but expecting the worst.

I'm just so scared... and now I have to wait and see...
I won't know for a few days...
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Old 05-05-2008, 06:18 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 05-06-2008, 05:51 PM   #3 (permalink)
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It was confirmed today... my beta numbers are going down...

My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage....
I should have known.

It was a miracle to begin with... apparently to much of a miracle to stay with us.

I don't know what to do.
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Oh, how sad! I am so sorry this wasn't a sticky and has left you so soon. My five week loss was a horrible crushing blow. I hope that you stick around and vent to us and can get through the physical and emotional healing started. (((Hugs!)))
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