Ok so we have just opened our file for adoption and are still actively TTC#2.
I have taken another dose of the "drugs" this month but do not know how the next couple months will go.
What do I tell the agency? Is it better to be honest? Or will they not consider us if we are still trying?
It has been 14 months of hard core drugs and 3 years unprotected....
I am really scared that they are going to say that we need to have stopped...even though I may not take drugs I won't officially stop.
It has never mattered how my children come into my life however sometimes I worry that I am giving up to easily.
I'm excited and scared all at the same time.
Jenn
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C-section 11/20/04 Baby Girl
Isabelle 11 pds 5 oz 23" long
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TTC#2 since January 2007
Clomid 25 mg Sept,Oct: BFN
November: BFP Miscarraige 5 weeks
Letrezole: Dec-Feb 2008: BFN
Clomid: Mar,Apr, May,
June: BFP!!!!
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Given it can take YEARS to see any movement on your file with CAS I wouldnt mention it...if/when you become pregnant you can withdraw your application to adopt...
Dishonest ? yes .. and some people may not agree but in my experience with having my file there for a few years and not seeing ANYTHING at all .. no proposals etc we really should have gotten on with ours lives.
Good luck !
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Oct 09 - Femara 5mgs Days 3-7 BFN
Nov 09 - Femara 5mgs Days 3-7 BFN
Dec 09 - Femara 5 mgs Days 3-7
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Amy
After you guys took the classes how long did you wait before you gave up?
Do you mind these personal questions on her or can I PM you?
What age were you guys looking for and were you willing to accept any circumstances?
I am in for the long haul as I stated I would like many children and doesn't matter in which order.
I too just wanted to get the process started so that at least we were in there being considered, know what I mean.
I know my FOO is not happy. My parents said "OH" when I told them, but my brother and sister and all their family is very happy for us. I should say my MIL is very happy too.
Guess well just have to wait and see.....I know what I would say Im just worried that my husband will tell them in private meeting that he is hoping to have a natural child. I guess wha'ts mean't to be will be....
Jenn
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C-section 11/20/04 Baby Girl
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November: BFP Miscarraige 5 weeks
Letrezole: Dec-Feb 2008: BFN
Clomid: Mar,Apr, May,
June: BFP!!!!
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We wait 2 years ? then got kicked out of the program being told we would have to do the homestudy etc all over again...when i told my social worker that she couldnt believe it ..
i dont mind all the questions .. i just dont have much faith in the cas system .. then again my friend was able to adopt an 18 month old after not to long a wait so it all depends on what you are willing to accept (their son is perfect) and the ages...
i hope it all works out for you though and dont hesitate to contact me even if its just to chat ! LOL
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Oct 09 - Femara 5mgs Days 3-7 BFN
Nov 09 - Femara 5mgs Days 3-7 BFN
Dec 09 - Femara 5 mgs Days 3-7
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Durham CAS ??? and still trying?? 
