Dear Cysters,
I am pleased to report that a book that helped me tremendously in the mid 1980's when I was dealing with Post Partum Depression after a horrible Cesarean is still in print! The advice is timeless and very compassionate.
It is :
Ended Beginnings by Claudia Panuthos
It is a helpful tool to acknowledge and work through grieving of many types of losses: miscarriage, infant death, stillbirth, surgical births, ectopic pregnancies, infertility and many more situations.
There is much understanding here and many heart-wrenching first person accounts of chilbirth losses, yet many healing accounts, too. It is available at amazon.com and other sources.
I hope that it will help someone as it helped me.

Kathryn