Hi there! No worries about venting...it's natural to feel overwhelmed, especially when a doc pulls a stunt like not informing you of something like this. Anyways, don't worry about being overwhelmed. There's so much to process right now, you're going to be. Just take a deep breath, and go slowly. This forum is golden for info and guidence. I would also reccommend getting a book. There's a forum that reccommends several good ones. Basically, the more info you have, the less overwhelmed you'll be...as long as you don't try to absorb it all at once! :-)
I live in the same location as you. Lovely rain we're having lately, eh?

Stay dry, and I'll talk to you later!
-Dances