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Old 10-14-2004, 10:52 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I had my first m/c today but knew since earlier this week it was coming. I had an u/s Monday and there was just a sac at 6w5d so dr wanted us to come back but my blood work went down so I knew it was coming. I started cramping and bleeding yesterday and passed a large clot today at the dr. He did not see the sac anymore today on the u/s so I guess it is gone. I was on Clomid and got pregnant on my 2nd month. I am just feeling right now like I will never get pregnant again. I really thought this was it but it was not. Everyone around me is pregnant right now. The physical and emotional pain are so much. Dr gave me some pain pills so that is helping....sorry for just babbling.
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Old 10-14-2004, 11:01 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I'm so sorry. Earlier this year I had two early miscarriages just a few months apart and it just broke my heart. I know it is hard to bear right now and that nothing anyone can say will make you feel better, but I wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you and you are in my prayers. (((((Hugs))))) to you.
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Old 10-15-2004, 12:26 AM   #3 (permalink)
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So sorry to hear of your loss. I thought the exact same about never getting there again I'm sure you will! Believe it or not it does get easier.Just take the time you need to heal don't rush it or feel like you should be better in a week. Both my sil's, my best friend & my dh cousin were pregnant when i had the last m/c I avoided them for a few weeks, It didn't make the hurt easier when I saw them It just gave me time to accept it. Please take care my thoughts are wiyh you. Please babble as much as you need to.
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Old 10-15-2004, 01:44 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Hugs MizJessie. Its ok to babble, that's what this board is for. We are listening.

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Old 10-15-2004, 02:02 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I'm very sad for your little one. You are among friends here. We know that it helps to just get it out. Keep us posted.

These early losses are really disheartening, because they do take away the hope that we can successfully conceive. If you are ready in a few months, it is actually very likely that you can get pregnant again. Look around on the Mommy board... lots of signatures have little angels in them.
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Old 10-16-2004, 06:00 PM   #6 (permalink)
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We lost our little Rivi last week after he was born at 24W6D. We had been TTC for 8 years before we wound up pregnant with him.

Nothing in the world could ever make up for this loss, but we'll TTC again when we're ready. I know you feel the same. When the time is right, it will happen. In the meantime, you're already a mommy to your little angel. Knowing that has provided great comfort for me.

My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Old 10-17-2004, 08:05 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I'm sorry for your loss. We're all hear to listen whenever you need us.
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Old 10-17-2004, 08:57 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I am so sorry you have to go through this. (((hugs))) I will be thinking of you.

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