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Old 11-09-2005, 11:31 PM   #1 (permalink)
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HELP! Im CD64 after my last chem pg at 6 weeks. I was on progesterone since last Sunday to start AF. This past Sunday I started spotting. On Monday I called the RE and she said to stop the Prometrium and let AF come. So I did, and only spotting now!!! 4 days of it!! Just brown with some small bits of pink. but so slow its only on TP not on my UW!! And only some slight tenderness around where I would normally get cramps.

I have a sonohystogram on the 18th, my last RPL test!!! I pushed it back already from this week to next, I dont want to have to do it again! I took a pg test just to be sure, but it was BFN so I have no clue why I am spotting so much. I never spot before AF and only a day or two afterwards!! I want to get back on the TTC train this cycle, but my body is being hardheaded!!!

HELP! What should I do? The doc told me to just wait it out! Is there anyway to speed it up? Please look at my chart and see what you think!
THANKS IN ADVANCE GIRLS!
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Old 11-10-2005, 06:25 AM   #2 (permalink)
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The RE said to wait it out! BUT THIS SUCKS!! Why can't my body let me get on with my life!!!!! I mean hell after two m/c and still no answers I CANT EVEN MOVE ON!!!
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Old 11-10-2005, 06:55 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Wow, I hate the turmoil our bodies can put us through sometimes. I am different then you, in that I was dreading my first af after my loss. It took me by surprise and I immediately felt the same horror I did when I bled throughout my pregnancy. We had a second-trimester loss, so I understand with your loss being so early, that it is physically easier for you to be thinking about TTC again.

I hope your cycle figures itself out soon. These things do take time unfortunately. We are often in the backseat of our own lives just forced to watch and hope we make the turns I think maybe some meditation might help. I know it sounds cheesy, but the concept of becoming "one" with your body isn't so wrong. I would often just lay down flat on my back and just do a lot of deep and slow breathing, and try to think positive and soothing thoughts. I found this to be a good relaxation tool. You could also try chamomile tea, this will help your uterus contract. So does black cumin seed oil. I took it, and I felt it helped the same way provera or prometrium does to induce a period. I've been waiting for af for nearly 3 months now, and it finally came. I know what a relief it is when she finally shows up.

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Old 11-10-2005, 07:04 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Thank you Diamond. I am so very sorry for your loss. I appreciate you taking the time to help me with this. My massage therapist told me to drink chamomile tea to relax, unfortunantely I do not like tea but sometimes I pinch my nose and drink it anyways

I will have to get more "in tune" with my body. I have tried for so many months to get in control of my body that its catching up with me that I really have no control, I just think I do. Its a struggle when your body seems to be against your heart and what you really want.

I hope we both find peace and comfort. Thank you again.
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Old 11-11-2005, 03:09 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Mysty-- I had my last m/c in August, and took prometrium in Oct to get Af so I could start clomid. I started spotting 5 days later, but it never progressed beyond that. My dr said that continuous spotting (never on my underwear either) counted as AF, so I started the Clomid. The spotting did last for 5 days.

Did you have a D&C after your m/c? I did and I thought this might be why AF was so light.

I'm so sorry for your losses.
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Old 11-11-2005, 04:58 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Im sorry for your loss as well hun.

I didnt have a D&C. It was a natural m/c and I had heavy bleeding for 4-5 days. the doc said to reset my FF then so I am now on CD65. But I didnt take clomid after the m/c because we were going through the RPL testings. So I didnt O and thats why I did the prometrium.

I think Im going to start the clomid if/when I stop bleeding/spotting totally, regardless if it gets any heavier.

Thanks for your input, Im so glad I have cysters like you!
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