Forum: Coping with Pregnancy Loss

The drs just don't know what to do with me.... I did IVF, got a + @ 10dpo. Betas have always been low. Nothing has ever been seen on u/s. I can't have a methotrexate shot due to elevated liver function. I had a d&c/laproscopy 3 wks ago where nothing was found (no tissues, nothing). My hcg continues to rise. I went in for another u/s today (should be 10 wks tomorrow & nothing was seen. My...

We are a thread of women who have lost our Precious Babies for one reason or another....we all come here to support each other and lend an ear when needed. Some of our beautiful women come to update us on their TTC activities and some of us are on TTC Break, but all of us are trying to deal with the losses of our Angels! ALL ARE WELCOME!!

I just don't know how to feel?? SO much is going on in my life that I feel I am not dealing with it and I know it's there in my mind and it's efeeting me. I have no support as DH is deployed. I had an ER D&C and he was brought home on ER leave, but returned a week later. So, I am just having a hard time as I ahve not ben able to get any support. Makes me sad! : ( Some of the things people...

our twins were born on saturday 7/24 at only 21w6d gestation. i went to the doctor with some cramping on thursday the 22nd, she found i was 4cm dialated with a bulging membrane of baby a's sac. i was immediately admitted to the hospital where it was confirmed through ulrasound. i was put on 100% strict bedrest with an inverted bed, hoping gravity would help put baby a back inside the cervix. the...

Tomorrow i will be 7 weeks from an IVF cycle. My betas started off not doubling and I had a 4 day bleed which I assumed was a miscarriage. however, my numbers kept rising. Starting in my 6th week my numbers are just about doubling. All of these were 72 hours apart unless noted: 41 58 68 81 166 174 after only 20 hours from previous 310 at 6 weeks 4 days

I recently lost my baby on 8/7/10. During the week on wed, I lost fluid in which I thought it was amniotic fluid. (there was no form of pain) Had a check up that day and DX was a yeast infection. (no normal symptoms of infection) Of course this is normal for all pregnancy women. The <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:place...

I know this will get easier with time. So, I just wish time would hurry up already. Patience is a virtue I am not possesing lately. And one of the most difficult things to deal with has been the lack of my Dr's help. I have called my RE's office 5 times since Friday and even gone in for a blood test. I can not get a nurse to call me back and I have about 50 questions so far. I tried to...

I posted this before but still think that there maybe those out there totally confused about what to feel or how to react to their miscarriage so i thought i would share it again. Support was very crucial for me during this time and I want to extend my hand to anyone else who may need it!! I read on here all the posts and feel the pain in the words of those who have suffered this tramatic loss....

Just quoting from my newspaper today: "Don't delay the next try after a miscarriage, women warned 'Best reproductive outcomes': The study shows it can harm a woman's chances of conceiving to wait, as recommended by current guidelines After the trauma of a miscarriage many women take a break to recover before they begin to try again for a baby. But they may in fact be increasing their...

I find out tomorrow if the pregnancy is lost or if it is just too hard to see. I am having a real hard time thinking it was just to hard for the dr to see on the ultrasound...tilted uterus or not. They were able to see it just fine 2 weeks ago, and it was so much smaller. I also dont understand why I was not sent for blood work. QUESTIONS! So here I am trying to get myself in the mindset to...

I just found out today my little baby died...I am okay, but hurting too. We have been trying for over 6 years and this was our first positive ever. I already feel ready emotionally to try again (I know we have to wait a bit) but I'm also SO scared now that it will keep happening. I just needed to reach out to others who have/are experiencing the same thing.

Hi ladies, I have to keep this short and sweet because I have to be somewhere at 9:30. About 12 weeks ago exactly I had surgery to remove a large cyst along with an ovary and fallopian tube. I had been bleeding from about 8 weeks prior to the surgery. I hadn't hd a period in over a year and the bleeding wasnt like my normal periods, so I don't think it was that. After surgery I stopped bleeding...

Hi ladies - I just wanted to share something that happened to me awhile ago. I am the mother of two angel babies - the second only joining her sister about a week and a half ago. But this is about my first angel, Marian Joy. We lost our little one the end of last January and it was devastating. The trip to the ER, finding no HB - it was the worst day in our lives and I thank God everyday for...