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Old 09-11-2006, 05:38 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy Friday's my first sad anniversary...

On 9/15/04, my cervix opened up at exactly 22 weeks. Because I had an incredible nurse who referred us to an awesome peri, a rescue cerclage was performed the following day.

Then, on 9/30/04, my water broke. We made it to 10/6/04, when I developed a fever which made the docs suspect an infection. I delivered Rivi that night, at 9:00 p.m. He weighed 1 lb 13 oz, and he was 13 1/4" long. His gestational age was only 24W6D, but he was born crying! His Apgars were 8, and the doctors were cautiously optimistic. But he developed the same infection I had, and he only lived 14 hours and 43 minutes. He died at 11:43 the following morning, 10/7/04.

I miss you, Rivi. I hope you get the kisses I send you every night before bed. Your little brother smiles whenever I talk about you.

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Old 09-11-2006, 07:31 AM   #2 (permalink)
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(((Hugs))) my thoughts are with you and your dear little Rivi.
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Old 09-11-2006, 07:40 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I send my heartfelt love to you in rememberance of your beautiful Rivelino. He will always be very, very special. Much love to you and little brother Dominici.

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Old 09-11-2006, 02:45 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Viv;
My heart breaks for you...a loss like that is more than any mother should have to bear.

I hope you can find some comfort in your beautiful son this week and the fact that your Soulcysters are reading your post and remembering Rivi too.

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Old 09-11-2006, 04:39 PM   #5 (permalink)
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all i can give is hugs....
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Old 09-11-2006, 08:38 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I'm thinking of you Viv, and your little Rivi.
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Old 09-11-2006, 10:19 PM   #7 (permalink)
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((Big hugs to you sweetheart))

Your post brought tears to my eyes...God bless you. I will be thinking of you and of your precious Rivi....

I am sure he gets your kisses that you send to him everynight...and I think you have two little boys smiling whenever you talk about Rivi...I am sure Rivi smiles as well when he looks down upon you and his beautiful baby brother.

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Old 09-11-2006, 11:20 PM   #8 (permalink)
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((((hugs)))) I'll be thinking of you often over the next few weeks. Yesterday was one of my big anniversaries. I'll remember Rivi always. I don't know how Heaven works. I don't know if our babies are instantly adults or if they grow and mature like they would on Earth. I like to imagine my babies growing and I hope all our little ones find eachother so that while we comfort eachother on Earth, our children can be hand in hand in Heaven. Perhaps they even guide us to their friends mommies so they know we are not alone.
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I'll be thinking of you and of Rivi over the next few weeks.

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Old 09-12-2006, 02:40 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Aww Viv We're remembering with you...and you know you've come a loooonngggg way cyster...i'm very proud of you.

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Viv- I am thinking of you and Rivi this week. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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you are in my thoughts and prayers...as always....
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I'll be thinking of you Viv and Rivi today. Here's a (((BIG HUG))) prayers and thoughts your way.
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Old 09-12-2006, 04:25 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Viv,

Rivi has a very special place in my heart. He will be remembered always!

Love ya!

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Old 09-14-2006, 05:37 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Oh Viv...my eyes teared up and I got a big lump in my throat reading your post.

Nothing I can say will make you feel better but just know that I am thinking of you and sweet little Rivi over the next few weeks. And I sure Dominic carries his big brother in his heart.

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