I have a + hpt in my bathroom. It is not mine, it belongs to my anorexic, alcoholic, mentally unstable unmarried friend. I am trying to take care of her, as I always do....but it's the first bfp I've ever seen in person and it's not mine. I'm crying my eyeballs out and buying her some vitamins. My heart hurts for her, her baby, and me...............
__________________ Me (22) DH (27) 2 furbabies Buddy the dashund Samson the chiweenie
Diagnosed with PCOS 10/2006 IR 10/2009 Excessive weight gain, irregular periods, acne
Met 1000 mg Inositol, multiviatamin, b-complex, chromium, fish oil, calcium, and CLA
10/2009 first cycle on met 120 mg Soy cd 1-5 2ww
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I am so sorry. What is God thinking?!? This disorder is awful. It is so wrong and you are being a great friend of course being there for your friend.
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Ok, I hope I've sent enough!
I'm dreadfully sorry you've been put in such a precarious situation. I truly hope and pray it works out for the best. I have been in situations where I was the only other person to know about someone else's pregnancy that really shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place. It was hard, both times, but things did turn out ok.
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I'm so sorry.. Your trying to be a great friend.. I hope you take care of yourself too.
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That baby's life is already ruined if she doesn't stop drinking NOW. How sad. Bless you for being a good friend to her - I know you'll help her through this and encourage her to do the right thing. Your time will come - hang in there.
To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. That just doesn't seem right, you a being a good friend that is all you can do right now (but when you leave, yell scream cry and just let it out).
Hugs to you, I wish there was some way it could be easier!
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I hope she smartens up. Every baby deserves a good mother, and good moms have to take care of themselves too. She is lucky to have you as a friend.
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I know the pain and frustration, I have been in a similar situation. I also work for a huge baby clothes company....started the job before the PCOS dx. I don't know why we have been struck with this horrible disease and those who deserve it least seem to be blessed with little angels they take for granted, there is no good reason. All I can is send a virtual hug and let you know that you are not alone!
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im so sorry you are hurting. i know it sucks. you are a bigger person than me and i admire you for being such a great friend. To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. I know this is how you must feel. Sad, angry, needing to pace around trying to figure out why. "Why does someone who can't take care of herself get to have a baby? Why is this child being sentenced to life with an alcoholic? Why, God, would you let this happen?" I'm sure these are the questions going through your mind. To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. This is a hug for you. God lets things happen for reasons beyond what we know or realize. But for you to be such a good friend as to allow her to stay with you while she figures out life, you have a big heart. Your day will come, blessings abound in the future, I'm sure.
To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. For now, scream, yell, get out those frustrations. It helps to have other women to talk to. I'm sorry you have to bear this emotional pain. Not only are you feeling those twinges of emptiness from within your own yearning uterus, but you are also feeling sadness for the child that is growing inside a mom who can't care for a baby. Stay as strong as you can, I'm sure your friend will need you in days to come.
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Thanks guys.
She is a very dear friend who has had a tough life. Yesterday I had a hard time, everytime she would leave the room I would burst into tears, for myself. But I think that's out of my system, and I'm ready to just take care of her. As sad as this situation is, I know that all things work together for good, and this might be a good thing for her. Who knows.
__________________ Me (22) DH (27) 2 furbabies Buddy the dashund Samson the chiweenie
Diagnosed with PCOS 10/2006 IR 10/2009 Excessive weight gain, irregular periods, acne
Met 1000 mg Inositol, multiviatamin, b-complex, chromium, fish oil, calcium, and CLA
10/2009 first cycle on met 120 mg Soy cd 1-5 2ww
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In great need of a virtual hug. 
