Links | Links 2 | Links 3 | Links 4 |

Go Back   PCOS Message Board > The Mother 'Hood' > Coping with Pregnancy Loss

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 09-10-2007, 09:58 PM   #1 (permalink)
Full-time incubator
 
Tensei's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Dutchess County, NY
Posts: 1,393
My Mood:
Tensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant futureTensei has a brilliant future
Points: 56,165.70
Bank: 1,398,792.66
Total Points: 1,454,958.36
Angry Grrrrrr

If I hear "You're young. You have plenty of time." ONE more time, I'm seriously going to knock someone on their heiney!!!
Tensei is offline   Reply With Quote

Sponsored Links
Old 09-10-2007, 10:04 PM   #2 (permalink)
BFP 1/5/09!!!!! :)
 
joeskitty's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posts: 2,330
My Mood:
joeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant futurejoeskitty has a brilliant future
Points: 10,042.37
Bank: 31,024,422.06
Total Points: 31,034,464.43
Default

Yes I totally agree with you. Or its ok you can always try again. I just feel like punching someone.
__________________
Heather (32) & DH Joe (27)

M/C 8/29/2007 (10wks)

EDD-9/18/09

u/s-1/26 6w3d-120bpm
u/s-2/2-7w3d-152bpm
u/s-2/9-8w3d-170bpm
u/s 2/17-9w4d-179bpm
u/s 2/23-10w3d-174bpm
NT test-3/9-12w3d-169bpm our cupcake looked great!!!

3/30/09-It's a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!

Gabriel Richard is here!!!! Born 9/11/09 @ 5:20pm

7lbs 0.7oz...21 3/4 inches long


joeskitty is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-10-2007, 10:13 PM   #3 (permalink)
Raven
 
StormsDreams's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: I am right outside of Philadelphia
Posts: 2,321
My Mood:
StormsDreams has much to be proud ofStormsDreams has much to be proud ofStormsDreams has much to be proud ofStormsDreams has much to be proud ofStormsDreams has much to be proud ofStormsDreams has much to be proud ofStormsDreams has much to be proud ofStormsDreams has much to be proud of
Points: 35,927.31
Bank: 187,237.86
Total Points: 223,165.17
Default

Those can be some of the most hurtful things a person can say....
I had a doc tell me that in the hospital as i was loosing my son....
I wish they would have read the chart..........multiple procedures later...perhaps they wouldnt have said that....
I am only 27 and 5 IVF's on my belt....and lets not talk about what i did before IVF and in between........
StormsDreams is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-30-2007, 06:29 AM   #4 (permalink)
we got hitched!
 
ashie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: australia
Posts: 515
My Mood:
ashie is just really niceashie is just really niceashie is just really niceashie is just really niceashie is just really nice
Points: 18,002.04
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 18,002.04
Default

yes i tottally hear you...if its not the "your only a baby yourself, you have lots of time yet" or...the one i always get that makes me SO FREAKING MAD!
IS
"your just trying to hard"
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
__________________
ashie XoXo

Me 24
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Rob 31


ttc since feb 2005
metformin 2000mg
march 30th 09 IUI ~ 3 good follies!
BFP!!!!

its twin boys!
one twin lost at 32 weeks
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
other still fighting on...



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
ashie is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-30-2007, 07:57 AM   #5 (permalink)
English cyster
 
hela's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Winchester, UK
Posts: 1,173
My Mood:
hela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond reputehela has a reputation beyond repute
Points: 18,700.52
Bank: 5,732,564.72
Total Points: 5,751,265.24
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Tensei View Post
If I hear "You're young. You have plenty of time." ONE more time, I'm seriously going to knock someone on their heiney!!!
I had someone tell me the opposite.. "you're getting older, don't leave it to late" !!!
like at 38 I don't already know that
__________________
Me 40, Paul 45
DS Luke born 12th March 2009
Doggy furbaby - Milly
DX PCOS Jan 06
DX APS March 08


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


hela is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-30-2007, 09:20 AM   #6 (permalink)
PCOS Muslimah
 
Aishah's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 335
My Mood:
Aishah has much to be proud ofAishah has much to be proud ofAishah has much to be proud ofAishah has much to be proud ofAishah has much to be proud ofAishah has much to be proud ofAishah has much to be proud ofAishah has much to be proud ofAishah has much to be proud of
Points: 6,722.40
Bank: 8.46
Total Points: 6,730.87
Default

that phrase is such a PEEVE of mine!!

Just because we are younger doesnt mean we want children less! And since when did getting pregnant with another child replace all of the angels we lost before?

__________________
Me 22
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
, DH 25
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
, Preggo with #1
(Make du'aa baby sticks inshaAllah!)

M/C - 5/18/07 @ 14 wks


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Please say mashaAllah!



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


Due in August by God's Will!
Aishah is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-30-2007, 12:12 PM   #7 (permalink)
Long Island Soul Cyster!
 
Jillybean04's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Long Island, NY
Posts: 56
My Mood:
Jillybean04 is on a distinguished road
Points: 1,381.68
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 1,381.68
Default

Im on the other end...just having a m/c 2 weeks ago at the age of 42 and hearing "well,. at least you know you can get pregnant...you'll get pregnant again" yeah right...HELLO!!!! Im 42...the door is closing for me...I just want to smack these people sometimes!
__________________
Me 42
DH 41
DS 9-Our Miracle from God!
Married 3/27/93
2 Dogs-Daisy & Kiki

Dx PCOS 1984
Dx IR 11/03
Rx Metformin 1000 mg, Prenatal vitamins,
Licorice root

Our angel in heaven, Liam... lost to Trisomy 22
M/C Sept. 5, 2007 at 9.5 weeks
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Jillybean04 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-03-2007, 12:18 PM   #8 (permalink)
Asking for another baby
 
sunshine071899's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 318
My Mood:
sunshine071899 has a spectacular aura aboutsunshine071899 has a spectacular aura about
Points: 67,334.11
Bank: 9,247.71
Total Points: 76,581.82
Default

I know how you feel. I do also love the "atleast you know you can get pregnant". Because that makes me feel a whole lot better. Thank you for pointing that out, I didn't look at it that way.
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



Visit Miss Olivia's Page

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
sunshine071899 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-03-2007, 05:23 PM   #9 (permalink)
Blessed Mama
 
PrincessJilly's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Oregon
Posts: 1,041
My Mood:
PrincessJilly is a jewel in the roughPrincessJilly is a jewel in the roughPrincessJilly is a jewel in the rough
Points: 5,620.75
Bank: 340.31
Total Points: 5,961.07
Default

Oh thats my fav too-- at least you can.. WHAT the heck? At least I can have a BFP only to loose my child sometimes within days!?!?!?!? I don't get it.

My other fav too was "This too shall pass" What my child? my child has passed. I just lost my baby. Anyone else get this one too?

Oh my you ladies are going to fuel my frustration today I can tell. Oh well. Love you girls.. ha.... this too shall pass.. thanks for the "comfort."
Jilly
__________________
DH-Joel
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

4-m/c in two years
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

DD- Evelyn----------BFP- Oct 28 (Clomid, Gluc (until 18 wk), Cough syrup, Pre-natals, Omega 3)---Pg on bedrest from 24 wks to 32 due to pre-term-labor-- C-section 37 weeks June 23)

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

-Fur baby- Belle-- Lab
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
PrincessJilly is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-03-2007, 11:10 PM   #10 (permalink)
we got hitched!
 
ashie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: australia
Posts: 515
My Mood:
ashie is just really niceashie is just really niceashie is just really niceashie is just really niceashie is just really nice
Points: 18,002.04
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 18,002.04
Default

oh i have another one ladies! was at work and was working next to this lady and she is also ttc and she is 32 and we were sharing our stories and it was good, but then she said she has had a miscarridge and i said "oh im so sorry" but then told her i had one too in august, and she said "but isnt that good for you? isnt it a good thing?" i said "pardon" and she said "well isnt it a good thing? now you know you can get pregnant".... and i was like GRRRRRRRR
and just said "yup somehthing like that" and walked off! i was so mad!
xox
__________________
ashie XoXo

Me 24
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Rob 31


ttc since feb 2005
metformin 2000mg
march 30th 09 IUI ~ 3 good follies!
BFP!!!!

its twin boys!
one twin lost at 32 weeks
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
other still fighting on...



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
ashie is offline   Reply With Quote

Sponsored Links
Reply

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Post: 5.00

» Watch PCOS Videos

PCOS-Motivation...
This blog is to inform and motivate :)...

{widget place holder} {widget place holder}
 
Powered by vBadvanced CMPS v3.0.1

All times are GMT -3. The time now is 10:07 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.0
Copyright ©2000 - 2009, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.1.0
copyright 2002-2004