Those can be some of the most hurtful things a person can say....
I had a doc tell me that in the hospital as i was loosing my son....
I wish they would have read the chart..........multiple procedures later...perhaps they wouldnt have said that....
I am only 27 and 5 IVF's on my belt....and lets not talk about what i did before IVF and in between........
yes i tottally hear you...if its not the "your only a baby yourself, you have lots of time yet" or...the one i always get that makes me SO FREAKING MAD!
IS
"your just trying to hard"
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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Just because we are younger doesnt mean we want children less! And since when did getting pregnant with another child replace all of the angels we lost before?
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Please say mashaAllah!
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Im on the other end...just having a m/c 2 weeks ago at the age of 42 and hearing "well,. at least you know you can get pregnant...you'll get pregnant again" yeah right...HELLO!!!! Im 42...the door is closing for me...I just want to smack these people sometimes!
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I know how you feel. I do also love the "atleast you know you can get pregnant". Because that makes me feel a whole lot better. Thank you for pointing that out, I didn't look at it that way.
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Oh thats my fav too-- at least you can.. WHAT the heck? At least I can have a BFP only to loose my child sometimes within days!?!?!?!? I don't get it.
My other fav too was "This too shall pass" What my child? my child has passed. I just lost my baby. Anyone else get this one too?
Oh my you ladies are going to fuel my frustration today I can tell. Oh well. Love you girls.. ha.... this too shall pass.. thanks for the "comfort."
Jilly
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oh i have another one ladies! was at work and was working next to this lady and she is also ttc and she is 32 and we were sharing our stories and it was good, but then she said she has had a miscarridge and i said "oh im so sorry" but then told her i had one too in august, and she said "but isnt that good for you? isnt it a good thing?" i said "pardon" and she said "well isnt it a good thing? now you know you can get pregnant".... and i was like GRRRRRRRR
and just said "yup somehthing like that" and walked off! i was so mad!
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