If one more person asks me if I'm a mother I am going to scream
I am a receptionist/assistant in a chiropractic office and I can't tell you how many people have asked me this week if I'm a mother. I know mothers day is Sunday but....
What I really want to say is no I'm not a mother but not by choice, in fact I have lost 4 babies! But I know I can't do that. Oh will I be happy when this weekend is over. To top it off tomorrow would have been my 3rd babies due date, so emotions are already running high!
The other day my mother said to me, I am so excited for you it is your first mothers day. I said it is actually my second. This time last year I had a m/c in april and I was one day away from having my embryo transfer that ended in an ectopic. Mom then said, that is true I never thought of it that way.
I send you many ((hugs)) to help you through the next few days!
I don't think its any random person's business. I wish people thought about what they said. If you're not a mom, there's probably a reason. And rhey should only ask if there's a picture on your desk.
I hear you on the second Mother's day thing. It didn't "count" last year. I get so sick of people, and believe me, they usually get an earful!!
I'm sorry you guys are having a crappy week. I wish we could wear ribbons too. And I'm sorry about the aniversary. (((hugs))) I hope this weekend goes fast for you.
(((Hugs))) I don't use the term "angel" myself, but most of the ladies here do... if you use that, you could say, "only to my four angels", and that will shut their traps right up. I am really sorry about being bombarded like that!
__________________ Metformin 1500mg, Yasmin, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs
First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.
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Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks
Third pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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Fourth pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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So it looks like I need one more blood test. So frustrating, I was at 11 yesterday from 22 last week so he wants me back one more time next week. Man oh man it is taking it's sweet time coming down. I just want to be done with this so I can move on!!!!!
**HUGS** Looks like we will both be back to zero next week! I hope you have fun on your vacation! I really wish I could go on vacation! Fun in the sun, swimming & playing in the sand... man O' man could I use that!
***HUGS*** here is to one more arm bruise... yippie!
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On a TTC break...
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Grrrrrrrr 
