Haha, I'm even ttc in my sleep -TMI

Legally_Michelle · 08-11-2009, 01:02 AM

So I think my ttc-obsession has penetrated me in my unconscious state. A few weeks ago DH and I were driving to visit friends and he causally said, "what was last night about?" I had absolutely NO clue what he was talking about. I slept like a rock and had no dreams.
Me: "What? Was I talking?" DH: "No, well, sort of. You really don't know, do you?"
Now I'm really confused.
DH:"At 2am you jumped on me, started making out with me, shoved your chest in my face, and...you know."
Me: "Nooooo." After a while I figured out he wasn't joking, but I brushed it off. Maybe we did and I didn't remember it?

Then last week I woke up at 3am to me somehow BDing with DH. I have NO idea HOW that happened. I said something like "thanks for waking me up before you started." DH: "Um, honey, you started this."

W....T.....F

So, we have a discussion about wtf has been going on. Apparently I have been waking up DH about once or twice a week to BD with him in the middle of the night. He says my eyes are totally open, I mumble things, and I'm rather more aggressive than I usually would be. Then when we're done I roll over and fall asleep (usually I will insist on cuddling)
I have NO memory of this at all. I can fall asleep very well and I'm just out all night. I used to sleep walk when I was a kid, but grew out of it around age 12.

This has been going on since the m/c in June. Maybe my brain is trying to aid in our baby making by getting some extra BDing time in there? Perhaps my body is being very efficient with my time. I'm just laying there anyway, right?

It kind of freaks me out, but not as much as it would have if I were single or something. DH apparently doesn't mind what we call my little sleeping quirk (boys *rolls eyes*).

Mellybear · 08-11-2009, 01:10 AM

Um....Wow!

That's seems so odd, but in a good way! I think my DH would love it if I did something like that. Heck, I wish I did something like that (even if I didn't realize I was doing it)!

I hope that you're feeling well rested and energized when you wake up!

NightAngelX · 08-11-2009, 01:30 AM

Wow! Sounds fun! I bet you're sure to catch an egg that way!
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Meanwhile my husband would probably start sleeping downstairs.
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Im_me · 08-11-2009, 01:39 AM

I've done that before, even when we weren't TTC. The first time it scared the crap out of me because I woke up in the middle & didn't know what was going on lol. I've noticed that it happens more often when I'm stressed/worried.
Now my DH sleeps on the couch, partly because the bed hurts his back, partly because I have a problem falling asleep when I'm not alone, but mostly because he says he can't sleep when I keep trying to rape him.

abbiedarlin1 · 08-11-2009, 01:44 AM

My DH does that. He sometimes wakes up during and is like 'wtf...'. He always thinks I start it, but it's always him. Half the time I wake up with him on top of me lol. If I go into be after him I give him a kiss on the forehead and that sometimes starts him off. Or if I lean over him while he's sleeping to grab something off his bedside table. Sometimes in the morning he tells me he had a sexy dream...and I have to explain to him that it was real, or like I said he wakes up during quite confused. He is usually a lot more aggressive during 'sleep sex' too. One time was actually quite 'violent'..well, very domineering and rough. I'm not sure what the deal with it is. It generally happens when he's really tired. And he also occassionally sleep walks. Maybe it's connected.

jessietex · 08-11-2009, 02:58 PM

I've done that a few times before, it's kind of freaky- but in a good way! But, I don't think it's happened while we were ttc. Sounds like fun times to me!!!! I bet your man is loving life. Just think, you're increasing your odds!!!

rancidrock08 · 08-11-2009, 03:16 PM

Oh my gosh..that's so funny! I've never heard of anything like that before. My DF sleeps on the couch (his back hurts and I'm an absolute bed HOG) and that'd make for some awkward sleep sex. I think he'd get mad at me too.
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SarahB1982 · 08-11-2009, 03:22 PM

LOL! How crazy. Have you had a history of sleep walking type activities in the past?

Legally_Michelle · 08-11-2009, 03:31 PM

I'm glad I'm not alone! Perhaps it is a stress thing? And who on this board ISN'T stressed out?
Oh well, as long as DH is enjoying it I suppose. I did sleep walk when I was little and apparently I punch and kick DH in my sleep

Chula · 08-11-2009, 03:35 PM

I have read it all now!! LOL!!! No really I think this TTC takes a toll on all of us..I on the other hand feel bad for hubby to the point I am scared to ask for "it"

SarahB1982 · 08-11-2009, 03:39 PM

Hahaha! According to my DH I am quite brutal in my sleep too. Poor guy is 250lb and I gradually move throughout the night and he ends up in a tiny corner of his side by the time morning comes. He told me he needs to wear a cup to bed because of my crazy kicking legs! lol

JoyannaWants2BaMommy · 08-11-2009, 04:48 PM

dh tries to molest me in his sleep all the time. he has sleep apnea and used to sleepwalk real bad. he also only gets a couple of hours sleep each night. he rolls on me, or gropes me and talks crazy stuff. it is sooooo aggravating! i call him the sleep raper! LOL or sleep molester!

ralphie_bird · 08-11-2009, 06:33 PM

I am not sure if I should laugh or not. It might be scary if it happened to me! About all I do is talk in my sleep. And I don't do that all that often.

debdebdebby13 · 08-11-2009, 07:06 PM

I've never done that but my DH gropes me in his sleep all the time. I usually have to be mean to get him to stop, no gentle removing of his hand from my butt (or wherever!) will get him to stop.

MrsJulia · 08-11-2009, 08:28 PM

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So I think my ttc-obsession has penetrated me in my unconscious state. A few weeks ago DH and I were driving to visit friends and he causally said, "what was last night about?" I had absolutely NO clue what he was talking about. I slept like a rock and had no dreams.
Me: "What? Was I talking?" DH: "No, well, sort of. You really don't know, do you?"
Now I'm really confused.
DH:"At 2am you jumped on me, started making out with me, shoved your chest in my face, and...you know."
Me: "Nooooo." After a while I figured out he wasn't joking, but I brushed it off. Maybe we did and I didn't remember it?

Then last week I woke up at 3am to me somehow BDing with DH. I have NO idea HOW that happened. I said something like "thanks for waking me up before you started." DH: "Um, honey, you started this."

W....T.....F

So, we have a discussion about wtf has been going on. Apparently I have been waking up DH about once or twice a week to BD with him in the middle of the night. He says my eyes are totally open, I mumble things, and I'm rather more aggressive than I usually would be. Then when we're done I roll over and fall asleep (usually I will insist on cuddling)
I have NO memory of this at all. I can fall asleep very well and I'm just out all night. I used to sleep walk when I was a kid, but grew out of it around age 12.

This has been going on since the m/c in June. Maybe my brain is trying to aid in our baby making by getting some extra BDing time in there? Perhaps my body is being very efficient with my time. I'm just laying there anyway, right?

It kind of freaks me out, but not as much as it would have if I were single or something. DH apparently doesn't mind what we call my little sleeping quirk (boys *rolls eyes*).

I think this is normal and alot of people do it. I know hubby and I both do stuff in our sleep and the next day we are like WTF was that all about? It's funny, but I love it.