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Originally Posted by Blakesmomma First of all I am on hiatus from work right now. I went through 1 1/2 years of infertility treatments and over 2 years before that trying to get DH's reversal to work. Anyway we decided that I would stay home until DS was in school. I have about 8 - 9 months left of laziness - LOL! |
Aw, don't think of it that way hon! I know you're just joking, but our culture can be sooo work/career focused that I think we passed the healthy level a while ago and I worry about people internalizing that. Your son is only young once and he will forever appreciate having his mom around when he was growing up!
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Originally Posted by Blakesmomma I really like her but it seems like I have to keep after her to find out what is wrong. |
Sounds like your typical modern doctor to me

I think the HMOs have them so overworked and time-pressured that they can't even take the time to stop and try to figure things out with us. It's so frustrating!
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Originally Posted by Blakesmomma I haven't really done anything different that I have noticed. I sit at the computer the same and use it the same... I think? |
Hmmm... that would definitely point to something changing with
you, but still try to keep an eye out. I don't mean to be getting in your business and you certainly don't have to answer, but just something to think about, have you gained any weight recently? When I was bigger (I weighed 300 lbs. at 5'4), even the smallest weight changes could throw things all out of whack. In fact, thinking on it, I even had problems when I first started really losing weight, so it could be either way I suppose!
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Originally Posted by Blakesmomma I don't have any braces for my hands. I suppose I could definitely try that. I was wondering if maybe my hands were getting really cold if that would cause any problems. My problems just started a couple of months ago when it started getting cold her (Illinois). |
It couldn't hurt to try the braces. If you go to the doctor your insurance should even pay for them, if it covers durable medical goods. They aren't all that pricey though... about $30 ea. for the best ones. They come in handy, too. If your hands or wrists are achey, putting a brace on usually helps that quickly.
I really think we are all onto something with the cold. Just what, I'm not sure, but something!

That almost makes me worry that it is a circulatory issue, and that just makes me worry. Do you take fish oil for Omega 3s? I hear that is supposed to be good for your circulatory system as just one of its many benefits. I know my Aunt takes it for the bad circulation in her legs and she says it helps tons. I keep trying to take it, but I can't find a brand I can keep down (sigh). That's another one of those "couldn't hurt" kind of things you could try... and it's good for a TON of things.
Maybe we could all try to make sure to wear our gloves whenever outside. I even have some I can wear inside if I get cold, as I have Fibro and getting cold is a NO NO. They are just cheapie, novelty fingerless winter gloves from Target. I also have gloves I sleep in that are thin cotton/spandex that I put on after I slather on thick hand lotion/body butter. Makes your hands smooth and keeps 'em warm! Once again... couldn't hurt to try.
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Originally Posted by Blakesmomma An Aunt of mine was taking Vioxx and it caused her (they thought) blockages in her heart and her hands were falling asleep. |
See, this is where I REALLY worry for you hon... with your family history it would behoove you to get to a cardiologist pronto. You're still young and whatever they found they could most likely fix pretty easily with meds, and that's if they even found anything. If they didn't, that would be one less worry for you (((hugs)))
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Originally Posted by Blakesmomma I think I'm calling the doctor again Monday and see if they have any ideas and if I can have a stress test to rule heart problems out. |

I think you would feel so much better just
knowing. It could really take a load off of your mind.
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Originally Posted by Blakesmomma I'm not really claustrophobic but I don't think I could do a MRI... I'd have to go to the hospital that is about 45 minutes away that has an open-air MRI. |
Stupid ol'me IS claustrophobic and didn't even think about it until it was too late! I was too busy worrying if I'd fit into the tube (I was still really big)! Oh I fit no problem, but I've always had "issues" about being held down and being in tight spaces... duh. They do strap you down and the top of the tube was about an inch and a half away from my nose! They had given me little earplugs to put in before the test, and I was curious why, well then I found out... it started making the most HORRID noises. The worst were the "gunshot" noises. More "issues" for me! And it took about 15 minutes

I felt like even more of a strong woman after that than my first bikini wax as a youngin'!
Honey, I don't care if I have to drive to Illinois to carry you the 45 miles on my back to that open MRI, get the open one! I hear those are
great. No noise, it's truly open, and you can even have someone sit in the room with you. Walk those 45 miles if you have to. The MRI is a great test, it's worth it. It saved my neck, for example, and that hadn't shown up on literally dozens of x-rays.
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Originally Posted by Blakesmomma The doctor just recently had me started me taking Vitamin B complex and Vitamin C. I only read about some meds causing depletion of Vitamin B on this forum. I was taking some vitamins that I had read that I thought would help me. I'm taking Vitamin C/D and magnesium combo and it seemed to be helping with my hands but how much can you take? ya know! I don't know if I am low in calcium or not. |
Grrrr... doctors! They should be helping us with this, ya know? I told my partner I should be billing my insurance company for all the time I have to spend doing my own "doctoring"!
Have you checked out the "Alternative Remedies", section of this board? The ladies over there are super knowledgeable about these things. I take insane amounts of Vit C personally, because I investigated it thoroughly and found out the only risk to even crazy doses is kidney stones and diarhhea; and these were doses of 10 grams or so! Because it is a water-soluble vitamin, it will not accumulate in your body but will instead be (ahem) eliminated if there is any extra. I take between 2-3 grams of Vit C a day as I figure my body needs it for wound healing at the least (I have Hidradenitis Suppurativa). It seems to help the clarity of my facial skin and I've even recently started putting it on my face topically as I hear this does
great things for your skin tone and helps prevent aging/cancer because it is such a good anti-oxidant. So far in just a few days it's made it verrry smooth!
I also take vit D in the form of vitamin D3 (cholecalciferol), as I read that this is the most usable form. Recommended dose I saw was 1000mg, but all I could find was 700mg pills, so that's what I take. I've been reading a lot lately about how we aren't getting enough Vit D and this could be causing cancer. I figure it can't hurt.
My B Complex is
weak. It is seriously lacking, but I just double up on the dose. I figure once I learn more I'll take more of the Bs that address certain problems I have and balance it out with a
good B complex. But even my weak B Complex has helped me out a lot, and I mean
a lot with energy and just a feeling of wellbeing in general.
Sadly I'm not getting my Cal/Mag yet... but that's next on my list as that's a biggie. Not only do we need it for strong teeth and bones, but it helps in weightloss and Fibro pain.
A good document to read about all the various vitamins and treatments for PCOS is "Mary's PCOS Treatment FAQ":
http://members.aol.com/marykateroget/
I'm using this as my guide to get me started, and boy has Mary done her research! It gives recommended doses and even mentions interactions with other vitamins and the like. I owe Mary bigtime!!!
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Originally Posted by Blakesmomma When I lay on my back at night it doesn't seem to cause my hands to fall asleep like when I'm laying on my sides. I have been wondering about fibromyalgia and things like that also. Just hope I can get some response from my doctor. |
When I was bigger (and I mean no disrespect with that hon, I was a BIG GIRL, but I lost 120+ lbs. I'm still a big girl, just not
as big. I would NEVER judge a person on something as stupid as their size. I use the term "big girl" as a term of endearment amongst my friends. I'll never forget the way people treated me back then. It burns me up! Just clearing that up!) I would have all kinds of weird things happen when I laid down or stood up for too long. My outer thighs would go numb, for example, and get as cold as slabs of meat. My outer thighs would also go numb if I laid on my back, but if I laid on my sides my arms would go to sleep. We eventually had to buy a waterbed, and that helped
tons. Even piling those foam mattress pads about three thick on your mattress can help remove those pressure points.
Truthfully sweetie, I was worried about Fibro, but I didn't want to say anything as I'm superstitious as heck about some things (thank my Irish grandma for that!). When my Fibro first flared up I started with these kinds of weird symptoms. Doctors kept mentioning it to me and I would get downright angry... I didn't want to have that! Finally as that winter got harsher my symptoms got dramatically worse... I'm talking I couldn't walk upright all of a sudden in
one weekend. I would lie in the bathtub, soaking in epsom salts and hot water and just cry as my muscles burned like fire. It was crazy how fast it happened.
Do your muscles "wear out" or fatigue easily? I'm talking like your legs shaking when you try to go up stairs, for example. Do YOU wear out or fatigue easily these days? Do your muscles ache and burn? It's an odd sensation, a bit like when you have the flu, but quite different than just plain old sore muscles. Do they tighten/stiffen up when you are stationary for any length of time? Do you get "lumps" (spasms) in your muscles that hurt like heck?
Fibro can be so different for everyone, so it's hard to give general symptoms. It seems to run in my mother's family, with my Uncle having it BAD and I'm pretty sure my mom has it but she is in denial just as I once was. Even amongst family members our symptoms are similar, but different. I'd investigate a few websites, and if it sounds familiar to you, maybe read a few books, and if still sounds like a possibility I'd talk to your doctor about it. A rheumatologist usually diagnoses and treats Fibro, but honestly physical therapy and pain management has helped me the most. I'm a bigtime believer in physical therapy! It's helped me with so many things.
See, there I go running off at the mouth! Please write if it makes you feel better. Being sick and not knowing what is wrong is
scary. You'll figure this out though, and once you're on the mend you'll feel so much better! (((hugs))) Please look into Fibro though... your symptoms are sounding so much like the ones I was having when it really laid me low.