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  1. 01-17-2002 01:49 PM #1
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    i just broke it off with my g/f and i don't know if it was the right thing to do. i love her to death but i felt like we weren't getting anywhere and like i was the only one trying. i'm also very sick and i'm always in the hospital and i don't want to put her through that did i make the right choice anythign will help

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    {{{HUGS}}}} Michelle!

    Sorry you're having to go through this......(WHY IS LIFE SO HARD SOMETIMES?)

    My opinion is, if you truly don't see the relationship going anywhere, and you want someone to build a future with, then breaking up with her is the right thing to do. HOWEVER, I noticed that you said you are sick alot, and don't want to put her through that..........Don't make the mistake of pushing her away if you do truly love her, and it's just that you don't want to "put her through it"! Don't use your sickness as a reason to break it off---if she didn't love you, she wouldn't stick around.....

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    its not that its that i never see her and she doesn't try to get in tough with me at all and i'm just the one thats always trying i always go to her house when i could when my mom didn't know i was gay and i was the one that always called her and all and i e-mailed her and she wouldn't mail me back and when i told her that was one of my reasons she said she doesn't mail anyone but the way i see it is if you can't talk to the woman you love and she asked you to mail her or you mail her she would mail you back and at least say hi i love you talk to you soon you know. but that never happened. if she did try just a little than i would have stayed with her and explaned that its not going to be an easy life with me but would she please stay with me and be there for me but i didn't see the point in hurting myself and her if i kept waiting and just draggin it on and not knowing if she has found someone else or she doesn't love me anymore or whats going on in her head.

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    Awh..Big Hug to You ....

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    Michelle if this is the right thing to do and you KNOW it's the right thing to do, then I support you. I'm just sorry you're hurting. Hopefully you'll start to feel better soon. Love and Light. . . Ellyn

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