Ok, so Last weekend I had a total emotional freek out and took it all out on him. I mean I was like the Incredible HULK on "roids". It was bad. He got pissed, which I don't blame him for, and moved out. Now he wont talk to me at all. Its been 1 week and I have tried to explain what happened. He doesnt know anything of the possibility of PCOS or what it is or does. I have an appointment with my MD to get the official DX of PCOS and probably PMDD. I just don't want my one freek out to destroy our marriage. what should I do?
__________________ Diagnosed with PCOS and PMDD on 6-17-08
Started on Metformin XR 1000mg.
On Topamax 100mg daily for Migraines.
On Fiorinal with Codeine for breakthrough Migraines.
On Effexor XR 75mg for depression and anxiety.
On Xanax 0.5-1mg PRN for breakthrough anxiety.
On Prenatal Vitamins.
On Yaz birth control.
On AsA 325mg daily for blood clots.
On Vitex, Cinnamon, vit e, Mag, calicum, B6, Zinc.
Mom to Two Furr babies Boo and PK!
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Sweety, I freak out on my fiance' all the time.
I have come so close to losing him many times.
The only thing I can say to do is some how get ahold of him and apologize. tell him what is going on and that you don't understand your body. Explain to him that there will be future mood swings and times you cannot control your moods, but always know that you love him and don't mean the things your body is saying. You will learn that with PCOS your body does a lot that you cannot control and you will be confused and exasperated and you will lash out and get mean. It's only normal. It won't be easy for him or anyone esle who knows you. You will learn who your real friends are very quickly. Obviously he loves you so just try to spoil him when you can and remind him that when you freak not to take it personaly. When we rage it usually has nothing to do with the person we are yelling at but mostly has to do with ourselves and the confussion we feel.
I hope I helped
__________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Oh please God, please bless me with a BFP and I promise to raise my child in your word. I will be the best mother I posibly can. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Last edited by ChrissyJo; 06-17-2008 at 12:47 AM.
Reason: typos
Thanks for the advice. We are going to talk tomorrow at 5. But he sounds pretty pissed at me still. I really hope it all works out. I am so scared.
__________________ Diagnosed with PCOS and PMDD on 6-17-08
Started on Metformin XR 1000mg.
On Topamax 100mg daily for Migraines.
On Fiorinal with Codeine for breakthrough Migraines.
On Effexor XR 75mg for depression and anxiety.
On Xanax 0.5-1mg PRN for breakthrough anxiety.
On Prenatal Vitamins.
On Yaz birth control.
On AsA 325mg daily for blood clots.
On Vitex, Cinnamon, vit e, Mag, calicum, B6, Zinc.
Mom to Two Furr babies Boo and PK!
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
I understand completely what you are feeling. Earlier this week, I had an emotional breakdown due to the loss of our fetus 8 weeks ago. He also decided he was "moving out". Thank goodness for his family. They sat him down and tried to talk to him. He came home yesterday. We talked. Things are somewhat better, I just hope he doesnt freak out again later on down the line.
My advice is to listen to him and why he is so upset. Then try to calmly explain to him your feelings. For instance, I was very scared about some of my PCOS symptoms resurging over the last few weeks. I tried to explain that to DH when we talked.
I wish you the best and hope that you and your DH had a good talk.
Best of luck.
__________________ Me
DSS 5/30/04 (always will be mine)
I freak out alot, and he thinks I am crazy! My moods go up and down and I can be so happy one minute and bitting his head off the next. My doc has tried a few meds to help and they all have but then my DH gets mad because my sex drive becomes non-existant so then I stop taking them. I can't seem to win for loosing. I hope everything goes well and please let us know how everything goes. I wish you all the best!!
__________________ Me (26) DH (28) DD (5)
Happily Married Since
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. April 4, 2001 To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
**Happy 8 years to us**
**Devoted Wife and Mother**
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Maybe this is stating the obvious, but have you tried apologizing and not excusing your behavior?
Explaining is one thing, sometimes I need to tell DH that I got my medication timing off, and so now really isn't a good time to discuss X because I probably can't be reasonable right now. But it's not acceptable to mistreat your husband for any reason, and maybe he needs to hear that you understand that before he's willing to come back.
I don't know if what happened involved any physical violence, but think about what we'd all tell a woman who experienced something similar and then her partner excused it?
__________________ -diagnosed 1/2004
-treating with diet and exercise
-mom to 5 furkids, Patrick the greyhound, Gretta and Samantha the rabbits, Sophie and Rosie the guinea pigs, and 4 guinea pigs waiting at the Bridge.
-working on a PhD in American History
I see you are on Yaz? Did you know that a large percentage of women are unable to tolerate BCPs because of emotional anger issues? I took Yasmin for a year and felt like the worst wife in the world. I would go nuts and blow up all of the time at him over nothing or little things. I didn't really figure it out until I stopped taking Yasmin because my migraines were getting worse and worse(I see you have migraines, also), and then noticed that not only did my migraines get much better, but so did my moods when I discontinued the Yasmin.
__________________ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
me,age 32
dh, age 33
ds, Luke-10/30/02 (Gonal F/IUI)
Met ER 1500mg
Prenatals and extra Folic Acid
Expecting Twins To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. (Gonal F/IUI)EDD:11/11/04
Claire and Helen born October 2, 2004
Claire(5#11oz) and Helen(4#14oz)
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
October 30, 2002 My Sweetheart!!
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
I see you are on Yaz? Did you know that a large percentage of women are unable to tolerate BCPs because of emotional anger issues? I took Yasmin for a year and felt like the worst wife in the world. I would go nuts and blow up all of the time at him over nothing or little things. I didn't really figure it out until I stopped taking Yasmin because my migraines were getting worse and worse(I see you have migraines, also), and then noticed that not only did my migraines get much better, but so did my moods when I discontinued the Yasmin.
I had started another thread about Yasmin. I was concerned before I started taking it about my mood swings. Now, I have gained 1.5 lbs in 4 days without changing my diet or exercise routine.
Not sure what to think about the mood swings,but I know I don't feel happy.
__________________ Me
DSS 5/30/04 (always will be mine)
Help with my emotions and my Husband? 
