Ok, so Last weekend I had a total emotional freek out and took it all out on him. I mean I was like the Incredible HULK on "roids". It was bad. He got pissed, which I don't blame him for, and moved out. Now he wont talk to me at all. Its been 1 week and I have tried to explain what happened. He doesnt know anything of the possibility of PCOS or what it is or does. I have an appointment with my MD to get the official DX of PCOS and probably PMDD. I just don't want my one freek out to destroy our marriage. what should I do?
Just Looking for a mans opinion who deals with PCOS on a daily basis!
__________________ Diagnosed with PCOS and PMDD on 6-17-08
Started on Metformin XR 1000mg.
On Topamax 100mg daily for Migraines.
On Fiorinal with Codeine for breakthrough Migraines.
On Effexor XR 75mg for depression and anxiety.
On Xanax 0.5-1mg PRN for breakthrough anxiety.
On Prenatal Vitamins.
On Yaz birth control.
On AsA 325mg daily for blood clots.
On Vitex, Cinnamon, vit e, Mag, calicum, B6, Zinc.
Mom to Two Furr babies Boo and PK!
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All you can do is get him to talk to you and apologize for the way you treated him. I wouldn't think you freaking out on him one time would cause him to leave unless this has been an on going problem. How long have you been married?
My DH has dealt with my irrational behavior and I always apologize and i have gotten a pretty good hold on my emotions and how i treat people even when I want to explode!! i hope you can talk to him and tell him that you will be getting help and ask him if he is willing to work through this with you and that you could use his support and honesty when he feels that you are getting on the edge of hostility, that's what my DH does for me and i either go take a break from everyone or I talk it out with him. You are going to need his support as well as some understanding on his part that hormones suck!! You are going to have to be able to come down from your hormone monster hill and apologize even when you don't feel like it. Good luck
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We have been married for 2 years. But I think he is tired of my emotions and my apologies and there being no reason for them until now. And Now is when he wont talk to me. He even has his cell turned off for the past week.
__________________ Diagnosed with PCOS and PMDD on 6-17-08
Started on Metformin XR 1000mg.
On Topamax 100mg daily for Migraines.
On Fiorinal with Codeine for breakthrough Migraines.
On Effexor XR 75mg for depression and anxiety.
On Xanax 0.5-1mg PRN for breakthrough anxiety.
On Prenatal Vitamins.
On Yaz birth control.
On AsA 325mg daily for blood clots.
On Vitex, Cinnamon, vit e, Mag, calicum, B6, Zinc.
Mom to Two Furr babies Boo and PK!
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Ok I have been known to be blunt at time so sit right down and dont take this wrong if I come off that way. How much does you hubby know about PCOS, cause at first I did not know anything. my LW and I did not even know she had this disorder until we got back to the States which was 2 years. Then after I had a name to the the problem I started reading everything that I could. We found out at about 7 years and about to see our 10th and yes I almost walked out.
Ok on to what you can do. Right now tell him your sorry but give him alittle space cuase face it men as well as women we need it. And right after a fight he needs it. When you find out tell him right up front, give him as much info as you can get ahold of. Then tell him there are meds to help. There was a time when my wife just pushed me away and it killed me but know we know there are times that we need to talk everything out. Let him know he is still the major thing in your life but you need his help with dealing with this. PCOS is not just something that effects you, let him know there are going to be big hills to climb and you need him there for all of them. I know I am glad I did not go to the extreme and leave my wife she is my angel and God himself sent her to me. People that get married know what I am talking about. Let him know he is your other half you just need help, and it will help for him to read up on it and get on these boards when he is ready I will be more then happy and talk with him. The Man of the Board
Man of the Board- Thank you so much for the advice. I guess I just have to give him his space. He knows nothing of PCOS and after my melt down thats when I figured out thats what I have. I am a Registered Nurse. So I guess I will just have to wait until he is ready to talk. Thank you so much. This is so hard. I miss him, and need his support now more than ever.
__________________ Diagnosed with PCOS and PMDD on 6-17-08
Started on Metformin XR 1000mg.
On Topamax 100mg daily for Migraines.
On Fiorinal with Codeine for breakthrough Migraines.
On Effexor XR 75mg for depression and anxiety.
On Xanax 0.5-1mg PRN for breakthrough anxiety.
On Prenatal Vitamins.
On Yaz birth control.
On AsA 325mg daily for blood clots.
On Vitex, Cinnamon, vit e, Mag, calicum, B6, Zinc.
Mom to Two Furr babies Boo and PK!
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He finally agreed to talk today at 5pm after he gets off work. But he still sounds pissed. But at least he is willing to talk.
__________________ Diagnosed with PCOS and PMDD on 6-17-08
Started on Metformin XR 1000mg.
On Topamax 100mg daily for Migraines.
On Fiorinal with Codeine for breakthrough Migraines.
On Effexor XR 75mg for depression and anxiety.
On Xanax 0.5-1mg PRN for breakthrough anxiety.
On Prenatal Vitamins.
On Yaz birth control.
On AsA 325mg daily for blood clots.
On Vitex, Cinnamon, vit e, Mag, calicum, B6, Zinc.
Mom to Two Furr babies Boo and PK!
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Help with my Husband! 
