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Old 10-04-2004, 03:07 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy Here I am again...#4

Well, I'm having yet another m/c. I went in for an u/s today. I was supposed to be 7w6d & there was nothing there...there wasn't even the subchorionic hemmorage that I had 1 1/2 weeks ago. I completely stopped spotting so I thought everything was good...I had all my symptoms and everything. It's not good at all...

I'm more mad than sad at this point. I thought it was good that I stopped spotting but yet again by body failed me. We went in for the u/s & there was nothing there...no baby, no subchroniac hemmorage...no nothing. They did b/w & my RE said that they are going to find why this keeps happening...I thought that's what we did after the last m/c, apparently not. I don't think I have any faith in my RE anymore but he's the best in the area so I don't really have a choice. It's just not fair... And I have to act like everything is ok b/c Chris' uncle is staying here tonight b/c he has to go into Dallas to the dr. in the morning

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Old 10-04-2004, 04:41 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Not to be a cliche -but I am sorry. Not that is helps too much, but my heart does go out to you. Where in Texas are you? I ask only becuase I too am in Texas.
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Old 10-04-2004, 04:45 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Thanks Jen! We moved from MA to TX almost 5 years ago... We bought a house in McKinney last year.

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May I ask what doctor you are seeing? I am in Frisco and can tell you about my doctor that I have all the faith in the world in. I have the worst complications during pregnancy & he helped me get my dd here safe & sound as well as maintaining this pregnancy thus far. He is EXTREMELY knowledgable with pcos problems during pregnancy. I had a friend I referred to him that had a VERY slim chance of delivering her twins because they were in the same sac - (they usually tangle each other up in the cords & dont survive) and he got both those babies here. Not to down play your doc, but sometimes a fresh outlook helps.
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Old 10-04-2004, 05:08 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I'm seeing an RE b/c I don't O on my own...I've never even gotten to see my OB when I've been pg b/c I've always m/c'd before 9 weeks & he doesn't release me until about 9 wks.

My main problem is I keep having subchorionic hemmorages every time I'm pg & can't hold a pg b/c of them which as I read more is attributed to Natural Killer Cells...basically, my body thinks that the baby is a cancer cell & attacks it.

What kind of dr. are you seeing? I had a MFM all lined up but never got a chance to see him either.

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Old 10-04-2004, 05:22 PM   #6 (permalink)
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((((big hugs Traci))))

I am so very sorry for your loss. I was so hoping this would be the one for you. I am here if you ever need to talk.

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Thanks Steph.

My b/w came back @ 3100 down from 4,283 on 9/24, I have to go back in on Friday for more b/w...here's the hard part, if I have to keep going back Chris is going to be gone from Tues 10/12-Sat 10/16 & I really don't want to ask MIL to bring me...plus she's having problems w/ her car so I'm going to ask if we can wait until the next Monday for more b/w...maybe they'll have me come in on Monday 10/11 & then the next Monday.... The car will be @ the airport & I can't drive by myself & will not drive by myself (I haven't driven alone in 8 years) so that is not an option.

Do you think that waiting a week & a 1/2 for another beta is ok or is that bad?

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No I don't think waiting a week and a half would be a problem. Your beta is going down which unfortunately in your situation is a good thing. You have at least a month to pass everything before the risk of infection so there really shouldn't be a problem. I wish I lived closer to you so I could bring you (I live in NH and it's a bit of a drive to TX from here). I am praying for you and your dh!

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So sorry to hear about your loss It's the pits. Hope you are holding up alright. ((((hugs))))
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Traci---there are no good words except I am truely sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your DH.

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Traci,
We are all very sad. I really thought this was the one you've been waiting for. You are amazingly strong simply to survive this, and I admire you. Please give yourself the chance to rest and take care of yourself.
I'll be thinking of you and your tiny one.
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(((((HUGS))))) I am sorry for what is going on. I understand. I hope that something can be worked out sooner or later.
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Oh Sweetie - I am so sorry. I was really hoping and praying that this one would be ok. I can't begin to imagine your feelings right now but I do hope that time will heal your heart. Sometimes I wonder why things like this happen, and why we must suffer so much for some things that we want in this life.

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Oh Traci...i'm so sorry! Its 3 in the morning here and i couldnt sleep...i wish i could think of words but i'm too foggy...just know i'm sending you big cyber hugs.

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I'm so sorry Traci. I wish I could say something to make it better but what is there to say? It just sucks. Hugs.

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