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Old 01-22-2005, 08:16 PM   #1 (permalink)
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We just had our 3rd loss...I am very sad. We were ttc again for a 1 1/2 years. Right now I am suprisingly clam...I am sure the storm will hit later The pain has been pretty bad. I think I passed most of it already though
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OH NO Misty...I am SO SO Sorry.

Hold on to Gabby and your DH a little tighter tonight.

I am keeping you in my thoughts...I know all too well the pain of a MC.

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Old 01-22-2005, 09:08 PM   #3 (permalink)
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oh honey I am so sorry for your loss. please take care of yourself.
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Old 01-22-2005, 09:24 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I am so sorry for your loss. ((((HUGS))))
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Old 01-22-2005, 11:14 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Misty, again I'm so sorry. I was really hoping not to see you over here.

Doesn't it just suck that not only did you just lose a baby that you are really sad about, but the AWFUL pain in actually m/c.

Hey, remember what you told me about YOU getting PG after a m/c cycle??? **If** you are up for it, I hope it happens again for you.

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Old 01-22-2005, 11:35 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss.

You'll probably be better with this miscarriage than your other ones, being you've had 2 others before, and you also have a living baby you can snuggle close to, tonight.

Nothing hurts worse knowing you were getting ready to have a baby and start a family, only to come home finding an empty home and heart, yet again.

I feel for you, and I'm so sorry to hear you're going through it again.

I've had 2 miscarriages for sure, 4 total if we count the 2 times I've suspected being pregnant. My first one was multiples, we don't know how many, because I didn't get far enough along to have an ultrasound.

It hurts, take care of yourself.
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Old 01-23-2005, 01:52 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Misty I am so so sorry to hear about your lose I was praying for and will continue to. Hold your Gabby and have faith.
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Old 01-23-2005, 03:01 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Misty,
I didn't know this was your third loss. I was so excited that your betas were so similar to those with your darling girl! I hope that your healing is quick and that when you are ready to try again, you have no problems at all. Sometimes, like you said, that is the way it works.
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Old 01-23-2005, 05:13 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Misty I am sorry about your loss.
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Old 01-23-2005, 06:28 PM   #10 (permalink)
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(((Misty)))

I'm so sorry you're going through this again. I'm here for you if you need to talk...I found my cell phone in the car this morning with a dead battery, but I'll be plugging it in when i get over to my mom's, so give me a call if you need to.
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Old 01-23-2005, 07:09 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Thanks everyone, I really appreciate it. Yesterday, I think I was kind of numb about it. I kind of showed no emotions, didn't even cry. Today has been a different story. I feel so broken hearted. Of course, the biggest kick in the face was at the hospital when I went in for another beta count. The lady drawing my blood was 9 months pg and her belly was touching me the whole time.
I know I am able to carry a child to term, so thats a little bit of comfort...not a whole lot though. 1 child out of 4 pregnancies is not very good. I just hope we are able to have one more with no more mc...I can't go through this again.
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Old 01-23-2005, 07:47 PM   #12 (permalink)
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So sorry for your loss. ((((HUGS))))
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Old 01-23-2005, 08:29 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Misty, I am so sorry for you loss.
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Old 01-23-2005, 08:34 PM   #14 (permalink)
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peonies4- I am so sorry for your loss as well. I noticed in your sigi. ((((hugs))))
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Old 01-24-2005, 12:32 PM   #15 (permalink)
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