Hello There... I Found This Website Searching Through Some Answers That My Mom Didnt Want To Tell Me... I Didnt Know What I Had Exactly Until I Watched A T.v Show Named Mystery Diagnosis...so There It Was This Lady Telling Her Stor About Pcos And She Was Talking About Her Symptoms And Then I Thought Well I Am Going Through The Same Thing; I Knew I Kind Of Had That But I Was Never Sure Because My Mom Never Wanted To Tell Me...well I Decided To Ask My Mom What Was Exactly I Have...so She Told Me It Was Pcos...well I Did Get Really Sad... I Was Wondering Since There Is That Possibility I Cant Have Kids I Have Gotten Really Sad About That... There Are Times I Have Felt Deppressed Because I Want To Have A B/f But I Fell Deppressed Just Thinking About Gaining Weight Fast And Losing It Fast Too. A Lot Of Guys Dont Understand What Im Going Through Im Just Trying To Find The Guy That Would Understand Me And Will Be There For Me... And Since I Am A Virgin There Are A Lot Of Guys Out There That Only Want Sex... Well I've Been Going Through This Symptoms Since I Was 17 Thats When I First Got My Menstruation And A Few Months After My Menstruation Stopped And Then I Went To The Doctor And She Gave Me Some Pills So My Menstruation Would Go Down After That I Started Drinking Yasmin(bcp) And Then After That It Was The Same Story Over And Over Again Until Today I Found Out Exactly What I Had... I Thought I Was Alone But I Guessed Wrong Now I See Im Not The Only One With This Issue... I'm Glad I Found This Site I Guess It Will Help Me Release All My Feelings And Everything Im Feeling...
Thank You For Reading My Story And I Hope I Will Make Some Friends Here...
i know you might not feel so right now, but you are soo lucky to have found out at 19 that you've got pcos. i never menstruated more than twice a year and then usually only for 3 or 5 days - my mom and i thought something might be wrong but we hoped it would get better. Well, it sure didn't! I'm now 26 and i'm also on bc and now at least my cycles are regulated. And if i had been diagnose earlier i might have treated myself better (ie got enough excercise etc)
As to the boyfriends ... i would'nt worry too much about that! i have a wonderful fiancee that knew from day 1 that i had pcos and would have trouble getting pregnant and he has absolutely no problem with it (apart from feeling really bad for me and wanting to make it better). So basically if he's the right one for you, it won't bother him one bit!
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Hi ,
welcome to soul cysters i am new hear too!you will make some good friends here they are all lovely ladies and very inspirational!. I know how you feel darn pcos how frustrating!. dont worry about boyfriends you will find the mr right who will love you and accept your pcos!. hope you will enjoy it herre as much as i do you will find some very good info and make friends!
love mel x
Welcome to SC! I'm sorry your mom didn't want to talk to you about pcos. You have found a great resource to learn all about pcos and treating it; as well as a wonderful group of women who know what it is like to live with pcos. Make yourself at home!
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Twin boys born @ 33wks... 29 days in the NICU
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welcome, these are a lot of really special ladies and you can find answers or suggestions at least to pretty much anything you need. Good luck and I know you will find the right guy.
~Missie
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I'm also new here, you'll love it. Its a great place to get information and talk to other women who are going through what you are going through. I too was scared, and still am, that I won't be able to have children. the positive thing is that we've both been diagnosed young (i was diagnosed last year at age 19) and we can get a handle on it before we start planning for children. If you ever need anyone, I'm here. Along with a whole bunch of great women
thank You So Much Ladies... You Wont Believe It But I Started To Read The Responses And I Cried. Im Still Tryin To Get Over The Fact That I Was Lied To Since I Was 17 Yrs Old... Just The Fact That My Mom Thought That Just By Ignoring It, It Would Go Away But Its Not Like That... I Am Greatful That There Is So Much Support Here... I Have A Sister She Is 17 Yrs Old And I Told Her I Was Checking About Pocs...well I Havent Told My Sister (father's Side) What She Has Exactly She Has The Same Symptoms... She Lives In Puerto Rico And The Doctors Havent Yet Diagnosed Her But Its Going To Be Hard For Her Too Because On Top Of That She Has Diabetes And She Get Seizures...i Guess Im Gonna Tell Her Soon.
Im Still Tryin To Get Over The Fact That I Was Lied To Since I Was 17 Yrs Old... Just The Fact That My Mom Thought That Just By Ignoring It, It Would Go Away But Its Not Like That...
it took my mom and i quite a long time to realise that all my symptoms were pcos related, and before that we both also thought it would go away.
After being diagnosed (at 21) my mom and i began chatting about HER medical history and it turns out .... that she had ALL the pcos symptoms and just never thought about it or connected the dots. And the doc's weren't so clued up then (mom's 56)
When my parents were ready to have kids, she was playing squash (or racquestball) like a demon 6 days a week. So all the exercise helped to keep her pcos in control and she had no trouble getting pregnant. However, to this DAY she is still denying that she has pcos. lol!
So what i'm trying to say (in my rambling way) is that maybe your mom honestly thought that pcos is no big deal (like my mom did) and lied by omission rather than design?
As to your sisters - aren't they lucky to have such a great sis who'll tell them about it and help them understand the disease! (and maybe even refer them here!?)
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