HOhum!

Sarah2 · 02-23-2003, 09:47 PM

ok I have posted here before and it usually helps so here it goes. I was on vacation this week and then due to the snow It was cancelled. I then came down w a 103 fever and was stuck in my house all alone all week. Then I was feeling a little better today so I treated myself to a massage and some shopping. I get to the mall and I see my ex with his new girlfriend and he ignores me and walks away quickly... I FEEL CRUSHED! we were together for almost 4 yrs and this is how I am treated. PLUS I am still single since forever and he has soooooo moved on. I feel like a loser I keep picturing them in his bed doing things we did and it is making me sick. I am so miserable right now I cant stop crying I dont know what to do. HELP ME!

Lendi · 02-24-2003, 03:56 PM

What a bummer vacation, Sarah. I'm so sorry. You must be so disappointed. Sounds like your ex isnt' helping things, either. How long have you been apart? Do you have friends you can call who go out and maybe have friends. Sounds like you might be ready to start moving on, but are just not sure how. Maybe some counseling might help or at least talk to friends, write your feeling down, and of course always come here. Takes time, lots of time to put all that in back of you. I'm usually around and always willing to lend a sympathetic ear. Hugs, Lendi