I feel exactly that way, I've always wanted kids I'm so worried about having trouble when I'm actually ready to have kids. I know there are so many things I can do to help out with getting pregnant but it still worries me. None of my friends understand that worry.
I see that you have joined the BCLC program!! When you are paired with a big cyster, I'm sure this will be an issue that they can address.
*HUGS*!!
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Have you girls joined the Big Cysters Little Cysters Thread?
I want you girls to remember to be positive too!! There are LOTS of women ( MY MOTHER TO BE ONE!!) who have kids with PCOS !
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i didnt realize how everyone felt the same as me children wise. I am absolutely terrified that i wont be able to conceive when i want to. Im 18 and getting married next July..and planning for kids (fingers crossed) 1.5-2yrs after, im just praying that i can..and this board gives me hope. even one would be wonderful
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Jelly -- I feel that you have an advantage over some people because you ( and me, and others!) have started the meds and getting healthy now!
Have you joined the Big Cysters Little Cyster thing?
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i'm really worried because i've been dating my best friend and my boyfriend for almost two years now. we started dating in high school and are now in college. he's in a completely different state for college and we get to see eachother rarely (one week every two months?): as you can tell, it seems to be a genuine relationship cuz our love lasts no matter the distance between us. but I'm really scared about telling him about how i have pcos cuz i don't know how he'll react to the idea of maybe not being able to have kids and i don't want to lose him. anyways, he knows that i have something, but accepts the fact 'i'm not ready to tell him yet'. I don't know, he seems to talk about 'when we have kids' goofing off but still, i don't know, i'm just afraid of how he'll react. when should i tell him? we're in a genuine relationship...i just don't want it to end cuz of something i can't help
I'm 18 and have had my dx since I was 14 and every time my boyfriend and I talk about what we want in our futures the topic of children worries me because ever since I was little I;ve always wanted 2 little kids and every time I think that all I can really do is hope that when the time comes I'm able.
Im 19 now and I found out 2 days ago! I've been on this site every day! Im glad there are other teens to talk to with PCOS....im me any time.....honeycarmel816@aol.com
i am petrified that i wont be able to be a mom. my boyfriend loves me even with all my hair loss and scoliosis depression etc. i at least want to be able to have a family with him.
sorry i know that sounds really random. but you guys know what i mean.
Yeah, I'm worried generally, but for the most part I know that if I'm supposed to have a naturally conceived child, or more, God will make that possible with the man I truly love. And even so, down the road when I'm ready, if I'm not able I will get on medication and not give up.
If I'm not able to be with the man I truly love and have his children, I will just adopt. Them children need a loving family too.
Don't give up girlies..!!! <3
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I was about to say that you guys have no idea how relieved and grateful I am that I found this thread- and then i remembered the amazing, fabulous, incredible thing that led me to want to say that: YOU DO KNOW!! When my doctor brought PCOS up as an explanation for my symptoms, future infertility was one of the first worries i had, but I felt stupid bringing it up as a 15 year old. Thanks so so much for posting that article; it made me feel a zillion times better and two zillion times less alone.
My doctor has just put me on a new pill and told me there is nothing more that can be done until im ready to try and fall pregnant. Surely that's not it - im only 19 still got a good 8-9years till ill be financially and mentally and physically ready for a child - but what if its too late then? What then, why should we have to wait and find out so harshly what our bodies are all ready telling us.
Why does no one understand that even though were young - were women and having children is our one gift that should NEVER be taken away.
I no i sound dramatic but i just don't want to wait for that day... xxxx
boyfriend fears 
because i've been dating my best friend and my boyfriend for almost two years now. we started dating in high school and are now in college. he's in a completely different state for college and we get to see eachother rarely (one week every two months?): as you can tell, it seems to be a genuine relationship cuz our love lasts no matter the distance between us. but I'm really scared about telling him about how i have pcos cuz i don't know how he'll react to the idea of maybe not being able to have kids and i don't want to lose him. anyways, he knows that i have something, but accepts the fact 'i'm not ready to tell him yet'. I don't know, he seems to talk about 'when we have kids' goofing off but still, i don't know, i'm just afraid of how he'll react. when should i tell him? we're in a genuine relationship...i just don't want it to end cuz of something i can't help 
And even so, down the road when I'm ready, if I'm not able I will get on medication and not give up. 
thank you thank you thank you 
