IlOvEmIkEyB2002

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and 13 days today.....We have had a rocky relationship but mostly because we neither one ever have time to do anything and when one does the other don't.....We both have expressed our feelings for each other and are very serious about our relationship.....I feel that it is time for me to tell him my "secret" but I don't have any idea where to start.....I am so afraid that when I do tell him that he will leave me.....I am sure that he loves me because he has stood by my side through thick and thin and God knows there has been a lot of the thick to pull through.....He tells me that I am his world and he never wants to lose me....but I am still afraid that when he finds out my "secret" he will leave me....or even laugh at me.....I would appreciate any help or advice.......How did those of you with boyfriends tell him? How did you know when the time was right? What was his reaction? and Most of all....how did you just come out and say it?

Please Help!!!
Thank You

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TiffanyR

depends on the secret...

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babybokal

You mean about PCOS, right? OMG, I've never been in that situation before, so...anyone else have any ideas?

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Dx October 2000
Ortho-Evra (bc patches)
Trying for 120 lb. (HA!)
1 FAT brat cat sweetie pie fur baby (8 yrs., orange tabby)

When I was younger people used to tell me I had the body of a dancer. Well, I don't anymore. I have the body of a goddess.

elwaldrop

told my BF of almost a year a while ago. He didn't think it was a big deal...I mean, he like didn't get upset or anything. He understands that fertility may be a problem in a few years but for now he has just learned to deal with my mood swings. I guess it depends on u'r symptoms. I wouldn't fret bout it too much though. If he loves you he will support you.

Puddinpie

If you are talking about PCOS here's my advice.....

If he loves you that much, he wont care at all. My boyfriend of three years has known about this from the beginning. It didnt mean much until we started talking about marriage...then it became an issue. WIth the high chance of infertility, he was really bothered by the fact that we may have a hard time having children. He wants like 7 kids!!! :0)

So i know your relationship is new, but now is the time to tell him. If he has a problem with it, you know that he is not the man for you. He may be right now, but you should marry a man who will see PCOS as a personality trait, not a deadly disease. Us cysters have got special things about us, and any good man would love to LOVE US>

Let me know how it goes, or if you did tell him already, what he said. I would love to hear it!

AIM message me anytime..... CouCouAchoo

Puddinpie4b@hotmail.com

Take Care, and GOOD LUCK!!!

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