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07-08-2008, 09:12 PM
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My Mood: Points: 33,532.67 Bank: 263,658,533.59 Total Points: 263,692,066.26 | We didn't use an agency and things when fine with us. You would still need to have a homestudy done and if your home is too small for 2 children it might be a problem.
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07-08-2008, 09:47 PM
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My Mood: Points: 25,918.09 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 25,918.09 | OK, but that is ONLY because I am ALREADY pregnant. If I wasn't pg right now the adoption or TTC would probably be on equal footing.
Anyway, I don't want to argue, and I'm sorry if I hurt any feelings-- I guess this wasn't the right place to post this.
The truth is, MANY women going through infertility esp. loss turn to adoption after they have decided to no longer try to conceive. I don't think that makes us bad people or means that we would love the adopted child any less. I'm certainly not the only one who thought about doing something like that.
Well I wish you all the best of luck with everything. No hard feelings.
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07-14-2008, 12:42 AM
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My Mood: Points: 25,918.09 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 25,918.09 | In case anyone is interested, the little girl that I was telling you about decided to keep her baby and not place him/her, which I think is wonderful. It will be hard for her but at least she will not have to live with regret. I am sure her family will come around and help her with the support and care of the child-- and if not she will make it work.
So all's well that ends well!
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07-14-2008, 12:43 AM
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07-14-2008, 07:37 PM
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My Mood: Points: 8,365.95 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 8,365.95 | Quote:
Originally Posted by uwalcott
The truth is, MANY women going through infertility esp. loss turn to adoption after they have decided to no longer try to conceive. I don't think that makes us bad people or means that we would love the adopted child any less. I'm certainly not the only one who thought about doing something like that. | You're most certainly not alone! Best of luck with a happy and healthy pregnancy. The right "little one #3" will come along in God's time. 
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And people question why I can't just "be happy with your career and be grateful for what you DO have."
PCOS, IR, and Hyperinsulemia, also investigating adrenal, pituitary, and thyroid.
H also has some MF that's having us pursue IUI.
Clomid was a big fat failure. Researching both IUI and adoption from another agency & country. |
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