How did you know?

StarsHallowGirl · 01-16-2006, 03:53 AM

Hi,
I was curious as to know how did you know you were gay or bi? I think I might be but I'm not sure. Thanks for sharing your story

lighthouse1 · 01-19-2006, 11:35 PM

if you think you might be, you might be
then again, female sexuality is pretty fluid, you might just be having a normal feminine crush

there isn't really a hard and fast way of knowing

I would just go with the flow, if its gonna be it will come smack you in the face one day most likely

a friend of mine was married for years, liked her female next door neighbour but thought nothing of it
then one day, watching MTV it hit her, 'Pink (the singer) is really hot',
and she knew - right there "she fancied Pink"
like full on fancied her

.. and that's when the drama started.

hope it works out for you x

squidge63 · 01-20-2006, 07:38 PM

I knew as a kid I was different, as I knew I should have been a boy and didn't like the fact I grew into a girl... When I was about 14 maybe earlier I started getting feelings for females while my friends were having those feelings for males. Again it was something I didn't really understand, so that got locked up with the knowing I should have been male. The feelings never went away but I went down the straight path, until I was 34 and I had done a lot of thinking and decided that it was time to be me and I came out.

levacy · 02-04-2006, 02:02 AM

i'm kinda in the middle with both genders. i like certain features. (big butt, nice nippies, beautiful eyes, interesting hair, physically solid and around my height.) my husband has all that and he was raised by lesbians so he's basically a big lesbian himself. i am the luckiest b in the world. i am married to my best friend, he hates sports, he puts the seat down and i am totally the man in our relationship (but he can still school me like no other). i can make a list of celebrities that i would take home in a heartbeat several pages long and i still have a hard time thinking of a guy i find attractive. (pink is sooo friggin hot it's sick, angelina is a goddess and i adore mia tyler). i think it's about love and basic attraction. if my husband were a woman i would still be with him/her and he has said the same thing if i were a guy. we are just meant to be. i will always wonder what it would be like to have a gf with a killer rack but i wouldn't trade my life for anything.