How did you meet your first girlfriend?

Raven1 · 09-09-2003, 02:57 AM

I was 18 and I don't know why but I responded to a personal add for another girl. Never did this before in my life. Well she called me and we talked but, I was really sensing she wasn't my type. She lived in my area and I met up with her and her friends just to hang out. We all started to hang out more and more and (one of her friends) was really cute and eventually we started dating. Kind of wierd, but tha's my story. Anyone else?

AngelRose · 09-25-2003, 01:57 AM

i was in a play at school i cant even remember what it was now, but i was playing a husband to karen and we were play acting having sex with each other fully clothed or course, she kissed me for real, and we couldnt stop it seemed like we were kissing forever, they dropped the curtains on us lol, we were together for 2 years, and had lots and lots of very fun parties, we were both 13 when we got together. I didnt touch a man consentually till i was 18. I still preferr women, but the man im with at the moment was brought up by two lesbians and he is very feminine in his own way and very sensitive, so i think ill keep this one.LOL

Cretia5080 · 10-22-2003, 04:29 AM

Well, I've never actually HAD a girlfriend...Mostly had one-night stand things, which never were very fun. UNTIL...I placed a Yahoo personal ad a while back, and this girl answers it. She describes herself as being, "Not necessarily fat, but could lose a few pounds. 5'7" and 130 pounds." You can imagine my dismay, LOL. So I said, "Sorry, no, I weigh close to double what you do." (Well, I do weigh 200, so...) And we go on like this for awhile. Finally I just sent her a pic and she responds saying how pretty I am, etc. Then I get one from her and almost pass out. She looks like a model, for God's sake. Long hair, awesome eyes, thin, lovely. I refused to meet her, even though she begged and begged. I eventually gave in, and we totally hit it off. (No thanks to me, lol) I still cannot believe someone that hot is into me, I really can't. But she is such a wonderful person. She knows about the PCOS, the weight, the hair issues, everything, and she's okay with it. I couldn't be happier....

AngelRose · 10-22-2003, 04:39 AM

Chistine, sounds like a dream babe!
Lucky girl!

CindyLou · 12-03-2003, 02:35 AM

Okay - I wanted to post more with a question than a response. All of you seem to be "out" and I'm not so much. My dh knows and a few of his/my friends know. But that's it. His best friends "dumb" wife knows - and that's the only women that know - that I hang around with once in a while - I told a friend one time a few years ago and I thought she was definately weirded out and we didn't hang around after that.

So needless to say women scare me - yep that's my story. I don't have a girlfriend because they scare me. I'm afraid of meeting women, don't know how, and can't for the life of me figure out how to work my bisexuality into the conversation without seeming either A) militant B) bragging C) hard-up. I can't even find a bi or les friend that understands things that wants to just hang out.

I'm sorry - I shouldn't have hogged this post for this purpose.

I really haven't had a girlfriend - but I met my "first time" through my dh - we were just dating then - she was beautiful (I wasn't showing so many symptoms then - but I'm still a cutie!) - but the sad fact is later she admitted that she had really wanted to sleep with the sweetie instead - so that didn't work out. I still think about her a lot though.

CindyLou

Candtheweisel · 01-11-2004, 03:49 AM

We were best friends in High School... I had a boyfriend at the time who thought our friendship was getting in the way of our relationship and forced me to stop being friends with her!!! A few years passed, and by Junior year we were friends again... and somehow, in-between Junior and Senior year she suddenly became extremely attractive to me. (Something about the way she smoked a cigarette... hehehe...) Anyway, I somehow TOLD HER the way I felt... and one days he just kissed me! From there, we started a relationship (I dumped the guy!) and we were together for about two years... We're still the best of friends, though!

missmelanie23 · 01-12-2004, 10:35 AM

goodness i so i wish i had the courage to somehow tell my best friends of my feelings for her... i know she's bi and being curious myself......

i found that my attraction towards her grew more and more over the last year.. we started hanging out more, going at the gym together.. her personality is what i am looking for.. i just can't seem to approach her. but the feelings are there. I hope she makes the first move. I'm seing her tmrw and i am hoping to be able to say or do something that'll hint on it. maybe someone here can offer advice? lol

Zebra · 01-15-2004, 08:57 PM

Hey Melanie,
How did your meeting with your friend go? I certainly remember the awkwardness of being around such a close friend and all of a sudden feelings shift,...

For teh longest time I wasn't sure if we looked at each othe rmore becuase she wanted to or because I wanted to. There was a constant question of whether I was reading into her behavior what I wished for, or whether she was flirting back...until she kissed me on New Years. Once and twice and again and again until we ended up in each other arms forgetting about the world around us.

Fortunately the friendship became love and the love became friendship, as seamless as high and low tide (fortunately not nearly as fast). Our closenest has stayed, but we both have other significant others.

But I count myself really lucky to have her as my friend and to have had her as my girlfriend.

-Zebra

missmelanie23 · 01-16-2004, 02:07 PM

no such luck, she got called into work so i couldn't spend time with her.. as many times i see and recite the moment i tell her that i am attracted to her i still can't bring myself to say it.

there right moment doesn't exist so i have to say it and move on cause i may regret keeping those feelings inside.. just as i may regret telling her.

help! lol.. this is all so confusing.

missmelanie23 · 02-05-2004, 04:55 PM

I finally told her everything. She knows how i feel for her. she knows how long its been since i've felt this way.. wow.. Now i can openly talk to her about meeting chicks. Funny thing, she gets all jealous and tries to book all my free time.. haha I'm loving this.

I was so scared of ruining our friendship.. but if anything I think she appreciated my honesty more than anything.. Although I want something serious to come out of this, I'll let time go by and see where it brings me. Never know. Maybe things will work out after all. But in the meantime, i'm happy not hiding anything from her anymore and I can put in my two cents to all her "gay" (sorry, lack of better word) comments without her looking at me funny.

ah...this is nice!! hehe

L7girl · 03-02-2004, 12:02 PM

I met my g/f on-line at FallenGoddess.com

The funny (not so funny) thing is...

She has PCOS too. She's the most amazing woman I've ever met.

shrinkwrap · 03-27-2004, 12:43 AM

I'm with my first girlfriend right now. I met her at school and we met the first year I was there and began to become really good friends into our second year. She's one of my best friends. This year, she suddenly became really affectionate. For a while, we were just friends who hugged and said "I love you" to eachother.

A little later on, I realized I had deeper feelings for her. And recently she asked me to be her girlfriend. I said yes, of course. Today we had our first "date"...at her house...XD At first, it was a little awkward and we had nothing to do, but we ended up going to her room and laying in eachother's arms for...I don't know how long... not thinking of anything but eachother. It was absolutely amazing. I know I'm in love with her. And she loves me, too. And I still can't believe that someone so wonderful has come into my life and makes me feel this good about myself.

I love holding her in my arms... man, she's so tiny. She's about 5 foot 3 and maybe 95 pounds. She's so underweight. I'm so overweight. We're both not pretty(XD). She's extremely scatter-brained and easily distracted. I'm quite focused. And she rambles sometimes, and it's kind of annoying. I...hardly talk. And we love eachother-- a lot. I'm so thankful to have her in my life. ^_^

bazsmommy · 04-28-2004, 05:24 PM

L7,
girl life just isn't fair. you like L7 you are so adorable and you are in nebraska. and as fate would have it you have a girlfriend. DARN IT!!! email me if you are single again. Holly

Krystina · 05-11-2004, 01:38 AM

I met my first trough my cousin , they worked together.We would always party at the same places and she would always hit on me . I guess it turned me on just the fact that she was so open and made me soooo curious. I dont think it was so much her I just think I really was ready for the experiance. We dated for about a year. Im very thankfull for her. I thank her for the experiance it was great I felt so free. I never once felt like it was a bad thing.
When I kissed her for the first time I knew I never wanted to be with a man again.

I now im engaged to a beautiful women by the name of Vanessa . She is my everything. I love her dearly. When I saw her I thought to myself " she is the most amazing women I ever met in my life". We have been together almost 4 years now.I love to be out and open. I am having a huge wedding next year and I could'nt be any more proud to make her my wife.
Like I always say " why have a boyfriend when you can have a girlfriend"

Yaria · 06-24-2004, 03:05 AM

Hmm... I've had two boyfriends, and one girlfriend. My girlfriend I met at school... we're close friends, and eventually I told her I'm bi. Well... after that, we quickly became girlfriends. But, it only lasted a week or two... she wanted to have sex and I wasn't (and still aren't) ready for that, so we ended up breaking up. We're still friends, but I tend to hang out in a group of three guys now. Of course, they're all very very good boys. They all listen to meh!