How to handle all your friends/relatives great news
I realised today, when I found out that my cousin's wife is pregnant, that I am really not handling this well. I don't know how to do this. All of my friends have babies now, and the one person that I thought was going to be like me, just found out that she is expecting. How do you all do it? I sit here writing this in tears, not because I am jealous, but because I am mad at my body. All my life I heard that it was so easy to get pregnant, and not to have sex until you are married because you might get pregnant. Well guess what I am married having sex and I am not PREGNANT!!!
I am sorry guys, I guess I just needed to get a few things off my chest.
Its ok, I am not even close to being married or ready for a baby but I have the same desire to have one that you seem to have. I see all my cousins having beautiful babies and 99% of them had not one problem having their kids. We have infertility and high miscarriage rates in my family so I just know my out come is not going to be good. You have every right to feel the way you do and you did it much better than I would.(I would have swore a lot)
You just gotta have faith that some day, it's going to be YOUR great news!
There are so many women who know how you feel. And we can't be mad at our bodies, we gotta love our bodies and treat them right.
Keep the faith... and good luck.
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It can be really hard to see people who have always do the 'wrong' thing end up so happy, while you have done everything by the book and find things so challenging. I know, I have many a cousin who have done the 'wrong' thing and are blessed with a wonderful family. Merigreen is right if you have faith that good things will happen to you, they will.
It can be really hard to see people who have always do the 'wrong' thing end up so happy, while you have done everything by the book and find things so challenging. I know, I have many a cousin who have done the 'wrong' thing and are blessed with a wonderful family.
I feel ya. This is a source of endless frustration for me.
I feel the same way... please hang in there and hope for the best... I send you lots of baby dust!!! It's a long hard journey for us but it is way worth it in the end.
Just think of how lucky you are that you are married and you have someone who loves you. Many women wish they have what you do, just like you may wish you could have children right now like some of them.
It will come... we all want the total package and we want it now!! You just have to let everything fall into place. Do what you Dr's tell you to do and take care of yourself. Don't stress... that's the worst thing to do if you want a baby. Work hard at trying and it will come. Hugs
How to handle all your friends/relatives great news 
