Cyster_CC

This is a difficult thing to go through. I have been there and want to let you know. It did get better for me. The pain never goes away, but you do cope. I did something that helped me and it may you. So, I thought, I should share. I think, you must grieve to move forward.
I was blessed with PG in Feb. 04, in April at appox. 8wks I miscarried.

So, since I was PG/MC in the Spring. My dear baby would have been born around early Nov. I searched for the perfect way to remember this life. DH & I decided on planting a "burning bush" in our yard. It has small white flowers in the spring and turns bright red in the fall. Each Spring and Fall, I look at it as a memorial. It helps! God Bless each of you and may you find strength.

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So glad I found cysters! CC
miscarriage 4/2004
married since 7/1999
TTC since miscarriage
PCOS dx 11/2005

SheriKCMO

I like that idea a lot. Having something alive is wonderful, and having something beautiful and timely is wonderful, so this is everything wrapped up together and will last a very long time. Thanks for sharing. My early loss involved a Nov 11 due date, so I'm right there with you on the timing. (((Hugs)))

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Sheri:36 Hubby:36
Metformin 1500mg since 10/02, Yasmin since 4/06, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs

First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.

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Mary Catherine will be in our hearts forever, November 28, 2003.
Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks

Third pregnancy, Cerclage 8/13-1/19

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Duncan 2/11/05, 9lb 3oz
Fourth pregnancy, Cerclage 8/26-1/26

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Ruby 2/27/06, 9lbs

Time to lose this weight!

ladibug

This is a great idea. I have a lil stuff animal giraffe my mom gave me with my second. This one I was further along and actually saw the ultrasound pics. Something I keep outta site but still there in my thoughts.

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Kari Rose - 31
DX - 2000
MC - '95, '97
Ectopic - '05


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