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10-21-2005, 05:30 PM
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| | Tinamarie
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how often is to often to feel "frisky"? what i mean is i want "it" more than dh. is it from the high testosterone(SP)? and what can i do to calm "the urge" down? | 
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10-21-2005, 05:42 PM
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Why would you want to tame the urge down??? My dh and I bd at least every other night and most mornings. it is great for us!!
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10-21-2005, 08:44 PM
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| | No more sweet tea cyster
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I don't think there is such a thing as too often. It is due to hormones. When I wanted it more than Dh, I got a toy & he was fine w/ it. Just an idea & if you're not against it, talk it over w/ your Dh & see if he'd be fine w/ that.
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10-21-2005, 09:04 PM
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| | I'm finally a MOMMY!!!
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I am just like that I want it all the time, DH and I talked about it and I just bought a toy since he couldn't meet my demands.. After I got it, it seemed to of helped the situation and I rarely use it anymore. II would not want to tame the urges down, I would just talk to him you never know he may feel excited by it and want it more than you..
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10-21-2005, 09:06 PM
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10-21-2005, 11:41 PM
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| | Vince's Wife, Yuna's Mama
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Well, I want sex a LOT more than my DH. I would be happy with once a day and he wants it maybe once a week. If we have sex any more than that, it's because I talked him into it. It causes problems -- I've mentioned several times that it makes me feel very undesirable and unwanted but I guess he doesn't care that much, because he still has to be talked into it. Now I've just given up on trying to talk to him about it or trying to get him interested because it doesn't work anyway. No advice, just wanted to say I feel your pain.
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10-22-2005, 12:26 AM
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I have been exactly where you are. I wanted it at least once a day & wasnt getting it. I was tired of "taking care of myself" and it caused alot of problems in our marriage. I talked to my husband many times about how I felt & things would get better for a few days & then go back to the same old ways again. Finally someone mentioned on this board about making a calander & you & your husband decide together how many days a week & which days are best for making love. Put it on the calander & then stick to it. I have to admit I wasnt thrilled with the idea but I mentioned it to my husband. He wanted to make me happy & wanted to find a way that we could agree on our sex life. So we tried it for a month & I coudnt be happier. It made a big difference for us. Now we even sneak to the bedroom when its not on the calander. I thought it would take the romance out of it but it didnt at all. I am very blessed with a wonderful husband and now nothing stands in the way of our relationship. I too wanted something to calm me down but coudnt find a thing...lol Just try talking to your husband and tell him that you need "attention" more often & see how he feels. Best of luck.
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10-22-2005, 01:22 AM
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| | Growing baby #3!!!
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Thought that was just me, lol! I want it all the time and dh thinks I am weird! Compared to other women I am different in this area. Glad to know it is the hormones, thought it might be...was beginning to think I was weird too! I feel so at home here! I jsut have to wait on the hubby since he is not a big fan of *toys* ...says they can do things he could never do and wouldn't want me to get used to them...doesn't understand the real thing is always better! | |
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10-22-2005, 01:35 AM
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I thought it was just me too! I love to do it all the time. I would do it all day every day !  HAHA, anyway my bf gets annoyed at me bugging him all the time i got a toy too. He doesnt mind and sometimes he will even use it on me! | |
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10-22-2005, 01:41 AM
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| | lil is BACK!
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Why would you want to decrease your sex drive. What if you just naturally have a high sex drive. I have a higher one then my husband.
I fon't think theres ever a time where wanting it ever become wanting it to much. Now if you want it 10 times a day everyday....thats probably a bit much, or if you looking for other people to have sex with because dh isn't keeping up with the demand, then i'd say it was probably to much.
other wise be glad you have a sex drive there are some women who don't thought quite honestly in my opinion, it think it's a bit of a farse, but thats just me.
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10-22-2005, 01:50 AM
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| | Romantic Cyster
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Honey if your hubby wants it too, go for it!! I can see how it might be a problem if you have differing sex drives, and then I guess you have to find your "synch" but if the two of you want it, go for it like rabbits! I'd love to be able to go at it hammer and tongs whenever I felt like it!
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10-22-2005, 08:09 AM
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Go for it girl!
I think its a myth that men have a higher sex drive than women. I have a higher sex drive than my dh which can be difficult at times when I feel like making love but he doesn't, so I've learnt to compromise and toys are great.. | |
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10-23-2005, 11:38 AM
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Ya' know there are times i want it more than my honey and i usually get what i want.... 
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10-23-2005, 11:45 AM
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I have found that my sex drive is back since stopping the birth control. My dh couldn't be happier - lol. While on bc I could go like once every three weeks  . That at times was causing hurt feelings because dh didn't understand that it was "me and not him". Now that I am off bc - I can be ready to go everyday - now he can't keep up with me at times - but usually I convince him by the next morning.
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