Hi cysters this is kind of a rant thread..
I just recently on jan 1 experienced a misscariage with my first pregnancy ever I was 6 weeks.. I have a stepsister that is always trying to one up me on everything.. When i got engaged she tried to plan her wedding before mine, with someone she was not even dating anymore.. the list goes on and on of the things that she does that would be very shocking to all of you but the thing that buggs me the most..... When I announced that I was pregnate I was very very early Like 2 weeks (I had found out threw bloodwork at er b/c of side pain) I was very very happy cause even though we were not trying we didn't expect for it to happen b/c I do have pcos... anyways my mom, nana, step dad, sister and everyone else was soooo happy I shared the news immediatly and everyone could ONLY talk about the "baby". My stepsister has two kids a girl 4 years old and a boy 1. She and her husband fight all of the time and she is very insucure.. I love her b/c she is my stepsister but she is always been jealous of me and I have no idea why. she kept talking about how she didn't want anymore kids and she don't even keep her daughter my parents do.. Anyways when I was 6 weeks I misscaried and everyone was so upset... My mom kept saying well give yourself tme to heal and start trying again..( I am her only daughter so she really wanted this) 2 weeks ago my stepsister calls me and tells me that her side was hurting and she didn't know what was wrong. ( she knows I am a big infertility freak so I think she was prying info outta me) I told her she was prob ovulating and she said she was going to buy ovulation predicters to make sure so she would know not to have sex.... cause she didn't want another baby well something told me then she will be pregnate in a couple of weeks... well last week she called and said she was pregnate and she don't know how in the wourld it happend she is 2 weeks per her dr. she calls my mom up and says well "mom" i guess u are gonna be worried for the next 9 months....and tells me if u were still pregnate we would be due a month apart.... how FREAKING heartless.... my mom said she is not excited and just said oh ok to her... I am sure that bursted her bubble.....anyways this is really gotten to me,..... just needed to rant thanks, Nicole
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I am so sorry for your loss and for the inconsiderate way that your stepsister is treating you.
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thank you for your reply.. I just don't know what to say to her... I don't want to act babyish but i know the only reason she did this was to spite me...that is something i know with out any doubt.... First thing that my 4 year old niece said to me is My momma is pregnate... I know my step sister told her to say that to me,,,
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Sounds like she is trying to push your buttons. Don't let her get to you. She wants a reaction, she's trying to get attention. Let it be HER problem. Don't indulge her with any kind of reaction. My life philosophy is to "Act, never react."
Kinda stupid to get PG with a baby she didn't really want just because her step sis just lost a baby. Some people!
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how inconsiderate! IS she trying to suck up to your mom? She is acting like a bit**?
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I am really sorry for all you are going through. I had a similar experience over Christmas with my m/c, so I totally understand when someone is heartless to you when they should be comforting you. Some people are just very selfish and nasty.
A lot of the ladies on this board helped me through it, and I'm sure you'll find some comfort here as well. Big hugs to you.
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how would u feel, what would you do???? 
well something told me then she will be pregnate in a couple of weeks... well last week she called and said she was pregnate and she don't know how in the wourld it happend she is 2 weeks per her dr. she calls my mom up and says well "mom" i guess u are gonna be worried for the next 9 months....and tells me if u were still pregnate we would be due a month apart.... how FREAKING heartless.... my mom said she is not excited and just said oh ok to her... I am sure that bursted her bubble.....anyways this is really gotten to me,..... just needed to rant thanks, Nicole
I am so sorry for your loss and for the inconsiderate way that your stepsister is treating you.
