Ask your doctor for an antibodies test. If you're under 3, you could probably treat it a tiny bit... but you don't want to get much less than one. I've done that. And ended up back in the Dr.s office with a resting heart rate of about 130... It took almost 3 days on a med to lower the heart rate, and some bio feed back with a heart rate monitor to get it back to normal... IT'S NOT nice at all!
My current TSH is 3.2 I think... I'm taking a very low dose of thyroid. I have REALLY high antibodies... which means that I attack my thryoid, thus making it work overtime. The thyroid is kind of fatigued at that point, and just really needs some backup.
I would go to
http://www.about.com and get into the thyroid forum. The one the manages the sight is super knowledgeable about thyroid.
There is also something to the fact that you can make enough thyroid, but you don't convert it well... (not sure which test that is...) So, you could be "normal", and still have some problems.
Also, is your doctor a gp? or an endocrinologist? The gp is a GENERALIST, they deal with the ragingly obvious. Ask for a referal. With PCOS, and the family history, you should be a shoe in.
Also, another thing I recommend. Take a detailed record of what you eat and how you workout. There are plenty of online places you can do this for free... but you can present your DR. with a list of foods, and the daily calories, in addition to workouts... PROVE to him/her that you are doing everything right, and you still have nothing to show for it...
What are your other symptoms? Thyroid probs. CAN be a cause of infertility... but it's really most likely that your PCOS is the leading cause. Also, when you get PG, if you have a thyroid problem it must be closely watched, your TSH can jump around while PG, and if it drops to low, devastation. Happy to answer anything I might know about... but check out that other board. You can get better answers to your specific needs...