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Old 01-28-2008, 02:46 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Question I don't know how he really feels

So, my boyfriend (of 1 year) went with me the day I went for testing & he was with me when I was told my diagnosis; he held me when I cried & told me it’d be okay when the realization that I have something that will alter my life forever. He’s told that it’s okay & after reading up on some of the ‘side effects’ he tells me he’s not concerned about them…

I guess my question is: When You First Found Out, What When Through Your Mind Initially?

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Old 01-28-2008, 02:53 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I was happy... I know that sounds odd but I was.

I was overjoyed because...it wasn't my fault. The weight gain, the hair, the mood swings, the lack of periods, the awful pain when they did come, the fatigue, the weakness...it wasn't anything that I did...

I had family members say things like if you'd just get off that weight you'd be as pretty as the rest of your friends....(yea it was like that)

For me I found out and literally wanted to yell it from the roof tops...it isn't my fault I have something that made this happen and now I know how to fix it.

In short...I was happy.
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Old 01-28-2008, 10:00 PM   #3 (permalink)
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soulfulqween.. i was happy too.. its almost a weird feeling.. but its kinda like YES ALL MY QUESTIONS HAVE NOW BEEN ANSWERED!! you just feel.. at ease.. like you can breathe a sigh of relief
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Old 01-29-2008, 06:32 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I DITTO both soulfulqueen and AbovetheExtreme, I just felt relieve that I finally knew what was going on with my body
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Old 01-29-2008, 09:21 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I think she was looking for a male's point of view....my DH was not really too affected by it. I was glad to know that I had a reason for not getting pregnant...we had been trying for 2 years or so. He was glad to know, but he didn't really understand the problem until we went to the RE and the doctor explained it to him. Hopefully you will get a guy's response....
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Old 01-29-2008, 09:39 AM   #6 (permalink)
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my DH was soo happy to know that there was a reason for my mood swings!! Since my diagnosis we have looked at my diet.. (DH was a chef for 15 years, so he looked into foods...to see what he could do to make my situation better)
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are there even any guys that are on this website?
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Old 01-29-2008, 09:29 PM   #8 (permalink)
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there is a forum for them...don;t know how many use it though
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This IS the husbands and boyfriends of cysters forum...lol
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i know it is.. but girls can post in here too can't they? i guess.. lol i don't really know
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Heck yeah we can!! lol I just thought I would point it out! lol
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lol ok.. i wasn't sure if we could or not.. but i seen others doing it so i thought what the heck lol i will too
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i know it is.. but girls can post in here too can't they? i guess.. lol i don't really know
you can but this IS the one section here for us guys. if the women take over less men will post which is evidenced by the posts in the past, if some one is asking for a guys point of view please let us guys respond
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