Redruby89

How would I know if I had a cursh on a girl or not? I mean theres a girl at school who i know is gay. Shes not the physically attractive to me, and she dresses like a guy pretty much. And I see her and I get nervous like Im afraid Im gonna wind up liking her. I know theres nothing wrong with being gay but it doesnt seem like the right thing for me. Its been driving me crazy. I just dont know or not. I've been trying to picture like "being" with her and it doesnt do anything for me.

almost seems like Im trying to make myself be gay. I dont know, just needed to vent. It also probably doesnt help that I have really high anxiety so I probably make a bigger deal out of this than it really is. Any thoughts ladies?

LookingForHope16

It sounds to me as if you need to forget that the girl is gay and try to make friends with her. Get to know her and if something happens let it and just follow the flow.

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velveteen

I think I understand what you're describing. This is just a theory, but it sounds like the reason you notice her is because you know she is gay. It doesn't mean you're gay yourself, but that she is 'different' makes you more aware of her.
I don't know if I'm explaining myself properly but hope you get what I'm driving at.