Hi there, and welcome!
PCOS can cause all kinds of weird and wonderful symtoms. I would be willing to bet that a lot of what you've mentioned is related either directly or indirectly to PCOS. What I would suggest is learn absolutely
everything you can about the syndrome, and go to your Dr armed with information. This site is an excellent source. I had a Dr who
thought she knew a lot about PCOS, but she really didn't. She was the one who originally diagnosed me, and at the time, I hadn't educated myself and I believe I suffered as a result. Knowledge is power, and that's how you'll get the very best treatment.
As far as pg success stories go, I have one! My DH and I haven't used birth control for most of our 5 years together. I was in another long-term relationship prior, and I didn't use b/c for a lot of that either. Through all of that, I only conceived
once. I made it to 12wks pg, only to find out that the baby's heart had stopped beating at approximately 9wks. I didn't miscarry naturally ('missed abortion') and had to have a D&C. Following that, I only ever got a positive pg test once, and it turned out to be a chemical pg.
On September 03, 2003, I asked my Dr for Metformin (aka Glucophage..which I believe you're on?). Again, I had educated myself and researched it on these boards. On September 29, 2003 I did a home pg test, and got a positive!! It seems really fast (just over 3 weeks) but I've heard Metformin can work that way! I had read that the med can also help prevent m/c, so I stayed on it for my first trimester. I also went on progesterone suppositories, since a lot of PCOS women have low progesterone in pg, which can also cause m/c.
On May 23, 2004 I gave birth to my beautiful daughter Emily! I am still in awe, and I truly believe that it would never have happened if I hadn't come to this site and asked questions and researched as much as I could. I wouldn't have known about Met/Glucophage, progesterone, fertile CM, etc, etc. I credit the wonderful ladies on these boards for my successful pg.
Good luck with everything, and again, welcome to the boards! I hope to see you around!
Cheers,
Christine