furrygal

Yesterday morning after spending the night at his place, I hadn't had a chance to shave and was extremely self conscious about having him close to me, because I was afraid he would notice my facial hair.

I finially just talked to him about it and he was VERY understanding. He actually said he had noticed it before and it did not bother him at all. He was glad I talked to him. I'm so glad I decided to tell him! If anyone is having issues like I know I had, about telling someone about it, I would definitely recommend it!

joyblack

I'm sure you'll find you're actually closer to each other because it's something you've shared with him. Get him to shave your face and he'll not just accept it, but love you all the more for having it. Or at least that's how it is with my DH.

Tiffers1984

Bf's like this just do a world on your confidence level Mine is very understanding. He is always at my house and I live with my twin who has PCOS as well. We are both getting laser and constantly trying to "fix" ourselves so most of the time he's probably getting female overload. He always says, "you're beautiful no matter what." Even right now with my face all irritated and shedding from laser treatment he acts like there's nothing different.

It takes a lot to talk to a bf about this but when it's done you have this great big weight lifted off your shoulders. You tend to be scared of rejection and no one wants to be seen as unattractive. Even though they don't deserve you if they're not supportive it still hurts to be rejected.

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