Ok so I feel like the only person on the PLANET that doesn't get it... by it I mean guys, dating, playing games, getting played etc... I don't like to play games but it seems it is the only way. I like to be sexual but that scares guys, I like to express my feelings but that scares guys, I like to respond to text messages and answer their call but that scares guys... UGH! I can't be me too soon I have to be mysterious.. I just don't get any of it and everyone has different opinions on what to do it's ok to call its not ok to call ignore guys don't ignore guys I have no idea what to do@!!! I am 28 I know I should have a clue at this point but since I have been played over and over again obviously I don't get it. I just feel like the only one and it sucks. I don't know how not to get excited really soon, and how not to care, and not be upset when it ends and how to make it last, and how to take it one day at a time! Please help me I am a disaster!
I'm sorry your having a rough time... I'm not sure how not to get excited and want to continue communication. I know sometimes when you just stop caring is when things start to happen. I know I decided at some point to take some time away from men and focus on myself, around that time I met my husband. The right man will be just as excited as you. I hope you feel better soon, keep your head up!
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I'm sorry you're going through that. I know if I really like a guy (which is rare) I just want him and can't stop that feeling. Hell, I've been crushing on a guy for a while and I feel like a fool because he'd probably just play me but I can't turn that feeling off. It sucks. I want to just not even bother wanting to be with a guy but then I like this guy and can't help it. I hate it.
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Sarah,
This is going to sound really cliche, but it's true; the most important thing you can do is to be yourself. It doesn't matter what people are telling you to do or not to do, you need to do what feels right in your heart. If you're playing games and trying to be what a guy wants you to be, there's no way to know if you are truely compatible because you're so busy trying to be what you think he wants you to be. You're true mate will be attracted to (and love you) for who YOU are.
It also seems like it's easier to find guys when you're not looking for them - Maybe because we project more confidence or something (who knows!) - But I have heard so many stories of people meeting their mates when they stopped looking. I'm definitely not saying to give up, just don't put so much pressure on yourself.
I don't know what you're going through, but can imagine that it must be really frustrating and heart breaking - Good luck and keep us posted. **HUGS**
Honey, just be yourself. Would you want a guy who wants you to be someone else, in the long run?
I'm single and 33, and one thing I've realised in life is I can only be me, and I'm not going to play games to bring a partner into my life. The right partner for me won't WANT games played, he will just want to be himself with me and for me to be myself with him.
I'm fully embracing my "boys have cooties" side....wanna join?
Girlz club no boyz allowed!!!!
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I got dumped yet again!! 
no boyz allowed!!!!
