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Originally Posted by Jenn-Loves-Chris Anyone here adopt a child from someone they knew? A young lady at work just found out she is pregnant again and swears she doesn't want it, but is willing to let me and DH have it. I am trying to gather info on how to make this work! If you have any advice, please email me at Zamanthia@gmail.com |
My DH and I adopted our son at birth from a local woman whom we didn't know, however my stepmother knew personally. Our son was baby number 4 and he was born while she was in a State Prison in CA. Having a BM incarcerated at the time of pregnancy and birth adds an entirely separate layer of stuff to wade through. I met the BM for the first time in October 2007 at the county jail (two weeks prior to her sentencing). This is when she decided she was willing to consider giving him to us. After she was sentenced to two years in State prison, she decided that she was definitely going to give him up to us for adoption. Our son was born in January 2008. We had a little over 2 months to prepare for our first baby!
Our adoption was a closed Independent Adoption (did not go through an agency) so I had to hire an Adoption Service Provider (ASP), an attorney, and work with the hospital social worker. All in all, our adoption cost just under $10K which was completely tax refundable. I must say, I cannot imagine my life without my son - he is my world. I never thought I would adopt, but I wouldn't change the way things turned out for the world.
Adoptions vary greatly from state to state so I would recommend searching the web for what is required in your state. More than likely, each state has somethinng similar to an ASP to help coordinate the relinquishment and adoption consent forms. If you have any questions, just ask!
Good Luck!
