they kept skirting round it for ages saying something bad was going to happen and i though she was going to lose the babies, which would have been awful.
What would you do if you found that out?
I don't know if the baby is his cos she just jumped to conclusions and before she left he tried to say it wasn't his.
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Name Carrie, married to Steven for 3 years, Age: 31
DS Dylan born 10/06/07
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Well if Den had three other women on the go and had kids with them all and I didn't know anything about it I would divorce him. It would kill me, cos I love him to pieces and I can't imagine life without him. But that's just too big...
Now...for a more difficult question....if I found out he was had an affair or a one night stand? That I'm in a dilemma about. Before I would have said that I would never have tolerated it at all and he would be out on his ear. But recently I've been thinking about this (because a friend found out a few weeks ago that her DH was having an affair - she read his text messages!) and I think I would want to try and work through it as a couple. I think my view on this has changed since Dara has come along. I would hate to chuck everything away and would try and salvage things. Not just for Dara's sake, but for ours. We've got something really good (so hopefully it would never happen) but if it did I would want to try and come through it. I have a real problem trusting people once trust has been broken so that would be a major challenge so we'd have to do the counselling thing.
I would not what to throw it all away but i have a bit of a jealousy issue.
Luckily we have not had a problem, but mainly because i know he wouldn't be bothered with anyone else and he doesn't flirt with woman and is actually quite scared of them.
I also don't think i could handle him having children to other people, i know that sounds really bad, but its the jealousy thing again
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Name Carrie, married to Steven for 3 years, Age: 31
DS Dylan born 10/06/07
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Den doesn't flirt with women, but he's like one of the girls if you know what I mean. Defo not gay (!) but he makes friends with women. At first it did make me jealous...but it's just he is way. The relationships are truly plutonic and he involves me in all of them, so he's trying to hide nothing. In fact the girls in his dept at work have become friends of mine via him.
I've never thought about how I'd feel if he had kids with someone else. I think I'd be OK with a kid from a previous relationship but I'd have a problem if he fathered a child through an affair.
He had bought this universal remote control, which is brilliant cos we have about 6 and its great, but its like the love of his life. Every waking hour he is programming it getting it to do flash but pointless things, quite annoying.
And now when it hasn't done what he wanted it to he is phoning them up. Saddo!
You may wonder why i am here all the time, mainly cos the geek is busy with his toys
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DS Dylan born 10/06/07
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Hmmm... Well my hubby is a SC widower! I need to cut down the amount of time I'm on here...he's starting to get a bit moany (I'm doing lots of other stuff on the computer in the evenings as well).
I just don't want... 
