I am back here. I am afraid that i'm never going to be able to have a baby. I was so good this time. I don't know what I did wrong. The doctor last night said that the sac looks squeezed and that I should pass it soon. I asked if it was because I got pregnant so soon after the d&c. She said she doubts it. She said it's just something that happens. Then she said obese women have a higher rate of miscarriage. She said I could still have a healthy baby next time. I broke down in the hospital parking lot... It doesn't feel real. She said my cervix is partially dilated and that they'll take my hcg level on the 19th to see what is going on. whether i need surgery again. did this happen because i didn't wait a cycle like they advised? the doctor that did the surgery said that i could try right away. am i responsible for this?
__________________ Me 36
3 miscarriages 2004
DS Noah born at 36w2d 5lbs 13 oz 19.5"
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Oh honey you are sooo not responsible for this. This is not your fault.
maybe you could ask your dr to do some repeat pregnancy loss testing just to rule out any other factors that could be contributing. Again you done nothing wrong! Please look after yourself!
__________________ dx.pcos 2001
dx.Antiphospholipid syndrome 2004
4 Angel Babies
TWO MIRACLES! Zane Sebastian! May 3rd 2006!!!! Sienna Rayne January 3rd 2008!!!!
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You are not responsible so I hope you find peace in this fact and look toward the future where you will be a Mommy holding a precious baby in your arms. It will happen. I'm sorry for your loss. Please keep trying and I pray that the next time you have a full 9 months resulting in the child that you're meant to have! Best wishes.
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(((((Hugs!)))))
When you get back to the states, you can get all of this straightened out, I'm sure. I'm sorry this is happening again. Even if your body wasn't ready for another baby, it is still not your fault! You were certain you couldn't get pregnant, remember? Please don't blame yourself. When everything gets straightened out for you, there will be a good time for a full term pregnancy. Meanwhile, take good care of yourself, Sweetie. This just breaks our hearts to pieces. But someday you will have the baby of your dreams and the life that will make you so happy!
Your Cyster,
Sheri
__________________ Metformin 1500mg, Yasmin, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs
First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.
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Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks
Third pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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Fourth pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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My heart is really going out to you right now. Please take care of yourself.
I'll be praying for you and your family.
__________________ Dominici was born May 2006!
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Miracle Baby Boy Rivelino, born too early to live on October 6, 2004 at 24 weeks and 6 days. Never to be forgotten, always to be remembered, forever my source of inspiration.
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I am very sorry that this happened again to you. I do not believe that it really matters how long you wait. After my first miscarriage (I had a D&C also) we had to wait three cycles to try again. It turned out to be like four months we had to wait. When we were able to take Clomid again, we miscarriaged again. It is not your fault. For us, the third time worked! I will be praying for you and your DH.
Kim
__________________ Me (34) DH (34)
Diagnosed with PCOS 2001
1st mc 12/02
2nd mc 4/03
I lost another baby last night 
