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Old 10-13-2008, 01:15 PM   #1 (permalink)
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for the physical aspect of this m/c to be OVER!!!!!!!! It's so depressing to be bleeding/having tissue passage and using pads all day/night.....I think I'll begin to feel better and less emotional if this would just stop.

I know it's only been since Wed...but I'm ready.


Just sharing a thought.....thanks for 'listening'!!


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Old 10-13-2008, 01:51 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Im so sorry... I know its hard I don't know what to say to make it better though. I bled for 3 weeks before the heartbeat stopped but I just knew that the baby wasn't going to make it so in a way I know how you feel. You just want the end near. I was actually relieved when I had my D & C and I think people were astonishes that I was happy the pregnancy was over so to speak but like you its that god just end this so I can move on feeling. Keep your head up girl, once this is over you can put it past your and move on , its just a rough patch right now and you're gonna pull through
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Old 10-13-2008, 03:50 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Sending you hugs. I know, it seems so unfair to have to deal with the physical aspect on top of the emotional. I bled for almost 10 days with my m/c, I think. I hope it stops for you soon.

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Old 10-13-2008, 08:56 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Oh dear. I bled for a good two weeks on and off but it was mostly spotting to be honest... then one day of shere well.. horror to put it bluntly. I do know what you mean though, it was a relief of sorts to have the physical aspect over and done with because then you can start to focus on the healing and going back to well.. "normal" I suppose. I hope it stops soon! Stock up those pain killers and make sure you take it easy!

Sending lots of hugs and sympathy your way! May it run it's course promptly. Stupid human body, sometimes it just needs a kick in the rear to get itself into action. Bah.
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Dee,
You responded to my post on the pregnancy thread and we both had an u/s on the same day. I'm sorry we both got bad news. My RE couldn't find anything on u/s and my hcg went down to 167. I have been bleeding since Sunday. I'm sooooo sorry for your loss and understand how heartbreaking it is. I can't seem to stop crying. I hope that we can both find comfort and the strength to move on.
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Awwwwwwww Christy!!! *HUGS* I"m so very sorry for your loss!!!

Let the tears happen...that's my advice. Slowly...I'm learning to accept....and in fact ended up at my GP's yesterday...thought I was having a heart attack...but the Dr feels I was having an anxiety attack I had an EKG and a pulmonary test and some blood work done....here's hoping that doesn't happen again!!
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