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Old 09-27-2007, 06:42 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I need to whinge, so sorry girls but you're getting it!

1st I made 2 big chocolate cakes as a special order and f*cked up the recipe so they've sunk in the middle and i can't sell them

then went to the supermarket for groceries to be confronted by a whole load of early baby clothes, really cute pooh bear ones too.

seeing all the halloween stuff in the s/market reminded me of the date and how my friend and i had joked about if I could get to the end of september/october things would be ok because the babies would be developed enough if they came early.

then I went to the drama workshop things that I help out in the village with - 2 of the girls there about 16ish were messing about and said "bloody kids, i feel sorry for you" - whys that I answered - "well yours are due soon aren't they" - so I had to tell them no, i had a miscarriage 6 weeks ago!!
bless them, they were so upset for me, and about what they'd said but ...
bloody hell, I know I'm a big girl but surely you'd notice someone getting smaller rather than the normal pregnancy bigger???
so I got upset,the lady that helps run it came to see if i was ok and apologised because she thought she'd already told them.

so now I'm home with my wreck of chocolate cakes spread across the kitchen where i tried to see if I could salvage them (which I can't) DH isn't home yet but I've just been on the phone to him crying..and now i'm doing it again

oh and to finish it all off I've just been to the bathroom, wiped, and it looks like AF is turning up instead of me ovulating

sometimes life is just crap
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Old 09-27-2007, 06:47 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Hela - I'm sorry you are having such a crappy day. Don't you just hate those days when you know you shouldn't have gotten out of bed. Are the 2 cakes that you made still edible? Cause if they are dive in and don't look back...LOL. I hope this brought a little smile to your crappy day! Take care and remember tomorrow is another day!
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Old 09-27-2007, 11:43 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I'm sorry honey! I know how you feel. I hate these kinds of days! Where the hell are the good days at?!
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Old 09-28-2007, 11:33 AM   #4 (permalink)
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thanks girls,

today is a better day
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Old 09-28-2007, 02:03 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Hela~ I am glad you are feeling better today....some days are harder than others....Hugs!
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I'm so sorry. *HUGS* I agree with Sherry... take it out on the cakes. lol

We all have these days... it's normal. Just let yourself cry.
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i just thought you might like to know you're not alone, so i dug up this ole post of mine - i can totally relate. hope you have a better day!

warning though...children are mentioned in post...

http://www.soulcysters.net/complete-...post1887486485
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hehe thanks! I had a look at the post,. and a giggle

I've remade the cakes today and they've come out great, I might even take a pic in the morning

night all

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Hela: What a horrible day. I know I'm reading this late, but if I were you, I probably would have eaten those bad cakes myself to feel better!
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