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Old 06-26-2008, 06:38 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi everyone,
I went to the ER last night with bleeding, but no cramps, baby had a heartbeat but was measuring more than a week behind. They said there was a subchorionic hemmorage also.

Today I started bleeding heavily with a LOT of cramping and lots of clots in the blood (sorry tmi). It feels like terrible terrible menstrual cramps.

I'm not sure if I am miscarrying, pretty sure I am, with my first m/c it was missed and I went straight to a d&c because my body was not doing anything naturally.

I'm supposed to be going on a 6 hr. car trip and 2 weddings in the next week leaving this Sat.

I'm beside myself and don't know what to do.
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Old 06-26-2008, 06:42 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Kim I had a similar situation. I dont want to make you feel bad or give you false hope but it sounds like what I was feeling. It started out bleeding and within one day I was cramping like my period..then two days later it was unbearable pain. I would return to the doctor if the tissue and bleeding continues. I'll pray that you see a miracle. One lady on here.....unctoothlady she passed clots with her first daughter and she is a beautiful toddler. So I would just make sure to take it easy and ask the doctor for confirmation. You can have your BETA readings done if you are not comfortable w/ an exam. But just know that if it is happening and its natural then you will need to make sure the doctor can examine you.

Ill keep you in my prayers. Dont worry about your trips until you take care of yourself first.
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Old 06-30-2008, 07:47 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Kim I had a similar situation. I dont want to make you feel bad or give you false hope but it sounds like what I was feeling. It started out bleeding and within one day I was cramping like my period..then two days later it was unbearable pain. I would return to the doctor if the tissue and bleeding continues. I'll pray that you see a miracle. One lady on here.....unctoothlady she passed clots with her first daughter and she is a beautiful toddler. So I would just make sure to take it easy and ask the doctor for confirmation. You can have your BETA readings done if you are not comfortable w/ an exam. But just know that if it is happening and its natural then you will need to make sure the doctor can examine you.

Ill keep you in my prayers. Dont worry about your trips until you take care of yourself first.

Hey Leza...It's not me that you were speaking of here. I don't have any children. I think you got me confused here. I have had 2 natural miscarriages and my 3rd was the d&c.

Just wanted to clear that up.
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Old 07-01-2008, 03:29 AM   #4 (permalink)
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OH GOD VAL!! Im so so so sorry I did get you mixed up. I was thinking of you when I wrote that and I wrote your name down to remind me to pray for you....IM SO SORRY. i swear that was an honest mistake.
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It's fine. I just wanted to correct it. Don't want anyone thinking I am telling fibs. It was actually pointed out by another friend.

Again, its okay.
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Kim- A subarchnoid hemorrhage can cause bleeding like that. I think you should call your OB and see if they can do another u/s and give you more specifics. It could really go either way... I hope that you are not having a m/c hun. Get checked out!
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Sorry to say but Kim had a d&c over the weekend. So she did lose her little angel.

Kim you are in my prayers!
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Kim, (((HUGS)))) i am so sorry for your loss. I know how difficult it is and i hope that you find comfort in knowing that you have all of us to talk to about anything and everything you are going through. I will keep you in my prayers.
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KimI am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers

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Kim I am so sorry for your loss ..
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Kim I am so sorry that you are having to experience this right now. I am praying for you and hope that soon you will have a beautiful little angel. I am not going to say that I'm happy you are in this thread because no one wants to be here...but just know that you have many supportive "friends" here and we are always here to listen, make you laugh and bring knowledge to your life.

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Kim - I just went through the same thing and sadly also lost my little angel. I'll say a prayer for both of ours tonight....

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