hello to all mysters on this site,
I want to say thank you, thank you, thank you... especially biker and neech.. you are opening my eyes to what my husband is going through. thank you for expressing your emotions...
As for all the cysters:
i had posted one other reply to this area of the board. After reading through many of the threads I realized that most of the posts are from the woman. Over and over I read from men who want other advice from men and get our side.. (which I am guilty of) and then there are some really hormonal cysters going off on these guys who are trying to find an outlet to vent.. for shame!!!
We have an entire site to piss and moan... please join me in my request... lets leave these guys alone. ( Unless they request our advice or help) Read their posts, get some incite on how your DH or BF might feel, but join me now in leaving these poor guys alone... After all, we are all hormonal and i'm sure put our own guys through enough, they may have a raging wife to deal with, lets not add to their stress of dealing with raging cysters online too.
please save your two cents for another thread... i for one promise not to offer my two cents to this section ever again.. (not unless you ask for a female perspective)
God Bless you all for looking for help and support.
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wow! thank you, it sounds alot better coming from a woman then it did when i (and i admit it) lost my temper w/ some of the comments that were being made. for the record i welcome and appricate any helpful advice any of teh cysters here can give me and if you see something that help your dh/bf please just post a quote and say this helped me explane/understand/whatever so that others can get the same help, that is something i look for bc some posts can be a bit long
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I have to agree with biker. Its not that I don't appreciate some of the comments some of the cysters have made, I didn't start posting here to get crapped on.
I've struggled with this for many years and I've cried an awful lot. This is the only place I can go to vent and bare my soul. I thought I could do it without being judged but that hasn't been the case.
You're right. It is hard dealing with a hormanal wife and I certainly don't appreciate being judged by people who have no clue what I'm feeling or even dealing with.
I don't check this section often and I just saw this after my last post. I just wanted to say sorry if others have given you a hard time when you come on for support.
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Amen mluvsd! I have tried to get DH to join this group and he's reluctant. If he can't talk openly and is bashed about how he is feeling, he'll never join.
I too will not reply unless asked. Thanks also to the mysters who really have the guts to come on here and express their feelings! GOOD FOR YOU!
I am glad to see some husbands actually do post here. Mine did read some of the threads but wasn't interested in posting and he posts everywhere in alot of different sites. I can't seem to get him interested. He is VERY supportive though so I can't complain if he doesn't post here. he is trying everything he can to help me with this...eating healthier etc... He is one of the good ones!
Totally agree. We have a rant forum and all sorts of topic specific forum. The guys have their forum they should be allowed to post without being criticized. To be honest with you EVERYONE should have a right to post without getting blasted. I think men who love women with PCOS should be given a badge of honor. It ain't easy, heck sometimes I can't stand myself so I know I get on my husbands nerves. I come to this site because it helps having people who understand what I am going through. I am sure that is the same reason the men do it. Leave them be.
I am glad to see some husbands actually do post here. Mine did read some of the threads but wasn't interested in posting and he posts everywhere in alot of different sites. I can't seem to get him interested. He is VERY supportive though so I can't complain if he doesn't post here.
oh my darling nikki, its not i wasnt interested, i just had nothing to say.
i think its great that the DH's and BF's have a place to come and vent, talk, or whatever the mood strikes. myself ive just got more questions than complaints and the more i read here at the site the more answers i find. im so impressed with the information and support available to all the members.
I am so glad that you joined! It really means alot to me! You are so sweet!
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I actually told him I found this site and I am posting on it and it has helped me so much. I asked him to check it out and he did start reading some of the posts in here and I would show him some of the posts I have made. He was reading one day and found the above post about him not posting here and he decided to sign up and start posting. He posts in all kinds of message boards but I never had. I had signed up for one of the message boards he was on and didn't really post much but I think he was glad at least I signed up even though I didn't post much. Hope this helps??
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I think we should stay away and leave them alone 
