Of course you feel attached. She's your precious baby, no matter what happened with your pregnancy. It's all happened so quickly that I'm sure your still trying to adjust to emotionally knowing you won't get to see your baby grow up. Give yourself time, let yourself feel. There are no bad feelings, and you're entitled to feel whatever you feel whenever you do so. As for the magazines and the mail, would DH be able to grab the mail, and 'sort' it for you? If seeing the magazines and samples come in will make it harder for you, I would think he'd be more than willing to get rid of them. OK, I swear I'm not trying to sound like a trite advice column, but all of this seems very relevant to me, and I hope it will help you. Take care of yourself, but don't make yourself stop feeling.
My heart breaks for you. Stay strong, we are all hoping that your pain eases and praying for a better future.
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If things couldn't be possibly worse.........My marriage is officially over. No doubts about it this time. So, the only bright spot of looking forward to ttc again in a few weeks is gone. That just makes everything a whole lot worse..
(((HUGS))). I'm a little biased, but I think you're better off without him! I know this must be a terrible time right now. I'm here if you need anything.
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DX 12/08
M/C 3/08, 4/09, 11/09 But these things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, be patient! For it will surely take place. It will not be late by a single day.
Missy - I didn't know that things progressed to that point!! I'm hoping that you will see the light at the end of the tunnel REAL SOON!!!
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Baby #2 ANGEL Baby/D&C 3/26/09 To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
TTC #3 - Cycle 1 - 5/23/09 - Menopur (busted on 6/5/09)
Cycle 2 - RE consult on 11/24/09! Praying to make our family grow to 4! To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
GOD ALWAYS ANSWERS PRAYERS!!!
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missy i'm so sorry. this must be terribly difficult. my first marriage , well was a result of an unplanned pregnancy and ended b/c we just couldn't handle the stress that followed the loss. we grieved differently and grew apart. i cant image the stress two losses put on your relationship.
i'm so sorry your heart has to break again in this way.
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Isaac lives in heaven now
April 21st, 2009 BFP 7/6 IT'S A GIRL 10/5
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